Melissa Bolona Instagram – 11/22/22 marks the 1 year anniversary since Poppy’s passing on *insert dragonfly emoji here* my tiny soulmate & Paco’s Birthday. This was a year that encapsulates immense growth, courage, & reflection inward.
For those who know me intimately, 2022 has been a rollercoaster, with challenges ranging from a dog attack, neck injury, hospital, mold toxicity, hair loss, break ups, break-ins, a hit-and-run, deceptions, fight or flight, moves, & countless transitions.
In the midst of last years trying year, moments of sadness & frustration were tempered by an unwavering belief that each trial served a higher purpose. Even in the heart-wrenching moment of Poppy’s passing—symbolizing the end of an era, I had this gut feeling that I would come out on the other side a profoundly changed person.
I share this post because many people have this misconception that I live a ‘perfect life’ & ‘always happy’. without problems. NO ONES life is perfect. I captured a lot of these moments during a breakup, move out, & saying goodbye to Poppy—all in a 🌪️ 2 weeks , holding onto the belief that even in the toughest times, there’s a light at the end of the tunnel. In these moments despite challenging, I practiced gratitude, remembered that I have a great life, control my own destiny, & that all pain is indeed temporary.
In navigating these challenges, I discovered the power to deeply love & be more gentle with myself, strengthen my bond with my mom, find beauty in the smallest things, delve into spirituality, & welcome Paloma— who I know deep down was sent by Poppy unexpedtedly. Amidst the chaos, I found unexpected support & love from random corners of life, witnessed kindness from strangers, & reignited my passions, purpose, & desires. To those who were there for me, you know who you are ❤️
To anyone currently weathering their own storm, I share these reflections with the hope that they serve as a reminder that tough times are fleeting & in their wake emerges a stronger, more resilient self. Through deep pain & feeling your feelings comes a whole lot of beauty 🌹
The difference a year makes, 2023 has been filled with many blessings.
Here’s to Poppy & beyond 🚀 #poppytomars | Posted on 22/Nov/2023 20:30:00
