Kalki Koechlin Instagram – “My journey to self pleasure was long because it meant undoing my social conditioning: -to please others -to not be too demanding -to not be ‘wasting time’ Self pleasure taught me confidence, joy and how to carve out space for my needs,” Kalki shared. I resonated with this myself, so much. My own pleasure was so mysterious to me for the longest time. By my mid twenties I had had relationships but believe it or not, I hadn’t yet explored self pleasure. When I got myself a toy at 26 on the recommendation of a friend, it really changed everything for me. The joy and self discovery it brought me around my own body, and the fact that till that point I didn’t even know that I didn’t know the extent of the pleasure I was capable of experiencing — was what pushed me to start my YT channel focused on pleasure centric s:x ed way back in 2017. I wanted to shout it from the rooftops that women’s pleasure matters! I’m 33 now and for that experience to have ignited this whole journey and career for me—it really feels like Leezu’s and Pyaari were meant to be. 💖