Tommy Caldwell Instagram – Our kids are so much stronger than they often know. But figuring out how to show them what they are capable of can be a complex puzzle. How hard should we push them outside of there comfort zone? Will we end up making them hate the outdoors if we push it too hard? Becca and I haven’t always gotten it right. But this trip has been a break through. Every kid and family are different. But here are some things that seem to be working for us these days.
1: Team up with friends that have similar values, interests and physical abilities.
2: Avoid screens. Certainly don’t give your kids a smartphone until they are much older. I’m hoping college.
3: Celebrate working hard. And be empathetic when they are struggling. Avoid using guilt. (I fall short here sometimes)
4: Traveling seems to break bad patterns and bring fun in the form of newness. I think we are all more moldable when we travel.
5: Focus on fun. Kids naturally have a superpower when it comes to joy. Make sure to harness this.
6: Find a life partner like @beccajcaldwell. Becca is the most intentional, joyful and intelligent mom I have ever known. You just have to look into the eyes of our kids to see it. | Posted on 21/Jul/2024 23:51:39
