Esther Perel Instagram – When we’re stuck in a sexual rut, we focus too much on the problems and not enough on the possibilities. “We only did it once last month. We haven’t done it in a year. It only lasted two minutes.” Our obsession with frequency of sex and orgasm neglects the vast realm of eroticism as well the issue of desire. Sensuality simply doesn’t lend itself to the rigors of scorekeeping. It’s not about the frequency or the mechanics, but about reigniting our fascination with the erotic.
Sex isn’t just something we do; it’s a place we go—inside ourselves or with another. It’s an experience that unfolds in the spaces where curiosity meets creativity. Eroticism involves trying new things, exploring new places, and remembering the ancient things we’ve long forgotten. It’s a practice of exploration, curiosity, and connection—not just physically, but energetically and emotionally, and psychologically.
Explore new possibilities, make space for new, vibrant ways to connect and experience creative solutions that free you from whatever’s keeping you stuck. Visit the link in my bio for details on my upcoming two-course bundle, launching this fall, focused on bringing desire back in your relationship and infusing intimacy with more playfulness. | Posted on 21/Aug/2024 00:49:12
