I worked really hard to become someone my younger self would feel safe with this year and I think I’m finally learning how to treat myself like someone I love. I shall celebrate that today✨:) In my thoughts tonight, I hold the people I love. With deep gratitude- the people who have held me with great love and care. The people around the world who are in unimaginable pain. The people who are working to imagine and create a different world. The people who continue to hold on to hope in thought and action. The people who hold themselves and each other with gentleness and honesty in a hard world. Opening to the wisdom of the universe, the strength of our ancestors, and the love and support of those we journey with. May the crossing into 2025 be the one you need. ✨🫶
Some reflections during this season. Seeing the parts that make the whole, and remembering that it’s all magic. The earth growing with us. Or us growing with the earth. Finding what we have to offer and in what space. Daring to imagine. Learning to honour the sacred in a world that doesn’t seem to stop moving. Finishing the year rested. Speaking life into each other. Sending you all so much love, may it be a gentle one ✨🫶🦋
Some reflections during this season. Seeing the parts that make the whole, and remembering that it’s all magic. The earth growing with us. Or us growing with the earth. Finding what we have to offer and in what space. Daring to imagine. Learning to honour the sacred in a world that doesn’t seem to stop moving. Finishing the year rested. Speaking life into each other. Sending you all so much love, may it be a gentle one ✨🫶🦋
Some reflections during this season. Seeing the parts that make the whole, and remembering that it’s all magic. The earth growing with us. Or us growing with the earth. Finding what we have to offer and in what space. Daring to imagine. Learning to honour the sacred in a world that doesn’t seem to stop moving. Finishing the year rested. Speaking life into each other. Sending you all so much love, may it be a gentle one ✨🫶🦋
Some reflections during this season. Seeing the parts that make the whole, and remembering that it’s all magic. The earth growing with us. Or us growing with the earth. Finding what we have to offer and in what space. Daring to imagine. Learning to honour the sacred in a world that doesn’t seem to stop moving. Finishing the year rested. Speaking life into each other. Sending you all so much love, may it be a gentle one ✨🫶🦋
Some reflections during this season. Seeing the parts that make the whole, and remembering that it’s all magic. The earth growing with us. Or us growing with the earth. Finding what we have to offer and in what space. Daring to imagine. Learning to honour the sacred in a world that doesn’t seem to stop moving. Finishing the year rested. Speaking life into each other. Sending you all so much love, may it be a gentle one ✨🫶🦋
Some reflections during this season. Seeing the parts that make the whole, and remembering that it’s all magic. The earth growing with us. Or us growing with the earth. Finding what we have to offer and in what space. Daring to imagine. Learning to honour the sacred in a world that doesn’t seem to stop moving. Finishing the year rested. Speaking life into each other. Sending you all so much love, may it be a gentle one ✨🫶🦋
Some reflections during this season. Seeing the parts that make the whole, and remembering that it’s all magic. The earth growing with us. Or us growing with the earth. Finding what we have to offer and in what space. Daring to imagine. Learning to honour the sacred in a world that doesn’t seem to stop moving. Finishing the year rested. Speaking life into each other. Sending you all so much love, may it be a gentle one ✨🫶🦋
Some reflections during this season. Seeing the parts that make the whole, and remembering that it’s all magic. The earth growing with us. Or us growing with the earth. Finding what we have to offer and in what space. Daring to imagine. Learning to honour the sacred in a world that doesn’t seem to stop moving. Finishing the year rested. Speaking life into each other. Sending you all so much love, may it be a gentle one ✨🫶🦋
Some reflections during this season. Seeing the parts that make the whole, and remembering that it’s all magic. The earth growing with us. Or us growing with the earth. Finding what we have to offer and in what space. Daring to imagine. Learning to honour the sacred in a world that doesn’t seem to stop moving. Finishing the year rested. Speaking life into each other. Sending you all so much love, may it be a gentle one ✨🫶🦋
Some reflections during this season. Seeing the parts that make the whole, and remembering that it’s all magic. The earth growing with us. Or us growing with the earth. Finding what we have to offer and in what space. Daring to imagine. Learning to honour the sacred in a world that doesn’t seem to stop moving. Finishing the year rested. Speaking life into each other. Sending you all so much love, may it be a gentle one ✨🫶🦋
Some reflections during this season. Seeing the parts that make the whole, and remembering that it’s all magic. The earth growing with us. Or us growing with the earth. Finding what we have to offer and in what space. Daring to imagine. Learning to honour the sacred in a world that doesn’t seem to stop moving. Finishing the year rested. Speaking life into each other. Sending you all so much love, may it be a gentle one ✨🫶🦋
This was extraordinarily painful to put together. The levels of violence being inflicted on another human being is heartbreaking. The normalisation of that violence is terrifying. Why does a website like that even fucking exist?? 31.7% of men would 🍇 a woman if there were no consequences. And those are just the people who answered honestly. Why haven’t we reached a point where any form of SA is not even on the list of things that’s permissible to do to another human being? You know, like cannibalism? That’s pretty much universally reviled right? May I ask why SA isn’t on that list of things that are universally reviled? Would this change if the stats were flipped and majority of SA’s were carried out against men? So very often, it was someone the victim knew. Someone the victim loved. Are we supposed to walk around fearing and distrusting everyone? Even those closest to us? Or do we also “not all men” ourselves and hope for the best? “Please, I hope he loves me more than he loves getting his rocks off.” “Please, I hope he genuinely sees me as a human being.” “Please, I hope he is part of the 68.3%.” Really? Are there more men who are willing to do the work to see how the patriarchy harms them, to see how they knowingly or unknowingly uphold the systems that harm us ALL and make this world disproportionately more dangerous for women and then do something about it? I am not a man, I have not experienced how the patriarchy specifically harms men, here are some men who are doing some great work exploring that and re-imagining how things could be. @therealbenhurst @beyond_equality @mantalks @sheisnotyourrehab @brandontalksmarriage @tatemichaelsmith @thespeechprof If you have more resources, please share them. One thing I hope to see more is men asking themselves what they can do instead of defending themselves with “Not all men.” I am so grateful for Gisele’s bravery and courage. Shame must change sides. Merci, Gisele.
This was extraordinarily painful to put together. The levels of violence being inflicted on another human being is heartbreaking. The normalisation of that violence is terrifying. Why does a website like that even fucking exist?? 31.7% of men would 🍇 a woman if there were no consequences. And those are just the people who answered honestly. Why haven’t we reached a point where any form of SA is not even on the list of things that’s permissible to do to another human being? You know, like cannibalism? That’s pretty much universally reviled right? May I ask why SA isn’t on that list of things that are universally reviled? Would this change if the stats were flipped and majority of SA’s were carried out against men? So very often, it was someone the victim knew. Someone the victim loved. Are we supposed to walk around fearing and distrusting everyone? Even those closest to us? Or do we also “not all men” ourselves and hope for the best? “Please, I hope he loves me more than he loves getting his rocks off.” “Please, I hope he genuinely sees me as a human being.” “Please, I hope he is part of the 68.3%.” Really? Are there more men who are willing to do the work to see how the patriarchy harms them, to see how they knowingly or unknowingly uphold the systems that harm us ALL and make this world disproportionately more dangerous for women and then do something about it? I am not a man, I have not experienced how the patriarchy specifically harms men, here are some men who are doing some great work exploring that and re-imagining how things could be. @therealbenhurst @beyond_equality @mantalks @sheisnotyourrehab @brandontalksmarriage @tatemichaelsmith @thespeechprof If you have more resources, please share them. One thing I hope to see more is men asking themselves what they can do instead of defending themselves with “Not all men.” I am so grateful for Gisele’s bravery and courage. Shame must change sides. Merci, Gisele.
This was extraordinarily painful to put together. The levels of violence being inflicted on another human being is heartbreaking. The normalisation of that violence is terrifying. Why does a website like that even fucking exist?? 31.7% of men would 🍇 a woman if there were no consequences. And those are just the people who answered honestly. Why haven’t we reached a point where any form of SA is not even on the list of things that’s permissible to do to another human being? You know, like cannibalism? That’s pretty much universally reviled right? May I ask why SA isn’t on that list of things that are universally reviled? Would this change if the stats were flipped and majority of SA’s were carried out against men? So very often, it was someone the victim knew. Someone the victim loved. Are we supposed to walk around fearing and distrusting everyone? Even those closest to us? Or do we also “not all men” ourselves and hope for the best? “Please, I hope he loves me more than he loves getting his rocks off.” “Please, I hope he genuinely sees me as a human being.” “Please, I hope he is part of the 68.3%.” Really? Are there more men who are willing to do the work to see how the patriarchy harms them, to see how they knowingly or unknowingly uphold the systems that harm us ALL and make this world disproportionately more dangerous for women and then do something about it? I am not a man, I have not experienced how the patriarchy specifically harms men, here are some men who are doing some great work exploring that and re-imagining how things could be. @therealbenhurst @beyond_equality @mantalks @sheisnotyourrehab @brandontalksmarriage @tatemichaelsmith @thespeechprof If you have more resources, please share them. One thing I hope to see more is men asking themselves what they can do instead of defending themselves with “Not all men.” I am so grateful for Gisele’s bravery and courage. Shame must change sides. Merci, Gisele.
This was extraordinarily painful to put together. The levels of violence being inflicted on another human being is heartbreaking. The normalisation of that violence is terrifying. Why does a website like that even fucking exist?? 31.7% of men would 🍇 a woman if there were no consequences. And those are just the people who answered honestly. Why haven’t we reached a point where any form of SA is not even on the list of things that’s permissible to do to another human being? You know, like cannibalism? That’s pretty much universally reviled right? May I ask why SA isn’t on that list of things that are universally reviled? Would this change if the stats were flipped and majority of SA’s were carried out against men? So very often, it was someone the victim knew. Someone the victim loved. Are we supposed to walk around fearing and distrusting everyone? Even those closest to us? Or do we also “not all men” ourselves and hope for the best? “Please, I hope he loves me more than he loves getting his rocks off.” “Please, I hope he genuinely sees me as a human being.” “Please, I hope he is part of the 68.3%.” Really? Are there more men who are willing to do the work to see how the patriarchy harms them, to see how they knowingly or unknowingly uphold the systems that harm us ALL and make this world disproportionately more dangerous for women and then do something about it? I am not a man, I have not experienced how the patriarchy specifically harms men, here are some men who are doing some great work exploring that and re-imagining how things could be. @therealbenhurst @beyond_equality @mantalks @sheisnotyourrehab @brandontalksmarriage @tatemichaelsmith @thespeechprof If you have more resources, please share them. One thing I hope to see more is men asking themselves what they can do instead of defending themselves with “Not all men.” I am so grateful for Gisele’s bravery and courage. Shame must change sides. Merci, Gisele.
This was extraordinarily painful to put together. The levels of violence being inflicted on another human being is heartbreaking. The normalisation of that violence is terrifying. Why does a website like that even fucking exist?? 31.7% of men would 🍇 a woman if there were no consequences. And those are just the people who answered honestly. Why haven’t we reached a point where any form of SA is not even on the list of things that’s permissible to do to another human being? You know, like cannibalism? That’s pretty much universally reviled right? May I ask why SA isn’t on that list of things that are universally reviled? Would this change if the stats were flipped and majority of SA’s were carried out against men? So very often, it was someone the victim knew. Someone the victim loved. Are we supposed to walk around fearing and distrusting everyone? Even those closest to us? Or do we also “not all men” ourselves and hope for the best? “Please, I hope he loves me more than he loves getting his rocks off.” “Please, I hope he genuinely sees me as a human being.” “Please, I hope he is part of the 68.3%.” Really? Are there more men who are willing to do the work to see how the patriarchy harms them, to see how they knowingly or unknowingly uphold the systems that harm us ALL and make this world disproportionately more dangerous for women and then do something about it? I am not a man, I have not experienced how the patriarchy specifically harms men, here are some men who are doing some great work exploring that and re-imagining how things could be. @therealbenhurst @beyond_equality @mantalks @sheisnotyourrehab @brandontalksmarriage @tatemichaelsmith @thespeechprof If you have more resources, please share them. One thing I hope to see more is men asking themselves what they can do instead of defending themselves with “Not all men.” I am so grateful for Gisele’s bravery and courage. Shame must change sides. Merci, Gisele.
This was extraordinarily painful to put together. The levels of violence being inflicted on another human being is heartbreaking. The normalisation of that violence is terrifying. Why does a website like that even fucking exist?? 31.7% of men would 🍇 a woman if there were no consequences. And those are just the people who answered honestly. Why haven’t we reached a point where any form of SA is not even on the list of things that’s permissible to do to another human being? You know, like cannibalism? That’s pretty much universally reviled right? May I ask why SA isn’t on that list of things that are universally reviled? Would this change if the stats were flipped and majority of SA’s were carried out against men? So very often, it was someone the victim knew. Someone the victim loved. Are we supposed to walk around fearing and distrusting everyone? Even those closest to us? Or do we also “not all men” ourselves and hope for the best? “Please, I hope he loves me more than he loves getting his rocks off.” “Please, I hope he genuinely sees me as a human being.” “Please, I hope he is part of the 68.3%.” Really? Are there more men who are willing to do the work to see how the patriarchy harms them, to see how they knowingly or unknowingly uphold the systems that harm us ALL and make this world disproportionately more dangerous for women and then do something about it? I am not a man, I have not experienced how the patriarchy specifically harms men, here are some men who are doing some great work exploring that and re-imagining how things could be. @therealbenhurst @beyond_equality @mantalks @sheisnotyourrehab @brandontalksmarriage @tatemichaelsmith @thespeechprof If you have more resources, please share them. One thing I hope to see more is men asking themselves what they can do instead of defending themselves with “Not all men.” I am so grateful for Gisele’s bravery and courage. Shame must change sides. Merci, Gisele.
This was extraordinarily painful to put together. The levels of violence being inflicted on another human being is heartbreaking. The normalisation of that violence is terrifying. Why does a website like that even fucking exist?? 31.7% of men would 🍇 a woman if there were no consequences. And those are just the people who answered honestly. Why haven’t we reached a point where any form of SA is not even on the list of things that’s permissible to do to another human being? You know, like cannibalism? That’s pretty much universally reviled right? May I ask why SA isn’t on that list of things that are universally reviled? Would this change if the stats were flipped and majority of SA’s were carried out against men? So very often, it was someone the victim knew. Someone the victim loved. Are we supposed to walk around fearing and distrusting everyone? Even those closest to us? Or do we also “not all men” ourselves and hope for the best? “Please, I hope he loves me more than he loves getting his rocks off.” “Please, I hope he genuinely sees me as a human being.” “Please, I hope he is part of the 68.3%.” Really? Are there more men who are willing to do the work to see how the patriarchy harms them, to see how they knowingly or unknowingly uphold the systems that harm us ALL and make this world disproportionately more dangerous for women and then do something about it? I am not a man, I have not experienced how the patriarchy specifically harms men, here are some men who are doing some great work exploring that and re-imagining how things could be. @therealbenhurst @beyond_equality @mantalks @sheisnotyourrehab @brandontalksmarriage @tatemichaelsmith @thespeechprof If you have more resources, please share them. One thing I hope to see more is men asking themselves what they can do instead of defending themselves with “Not all men.” I am so grateful for Gisele’s bravery and courage. Shame must change sides. Merci, Gisele.
This was extraordinarily painful to put together. The levels of violence being inflicted on another human being is heartbreaking. The normalisation of that violence is terrifying. Why does a website like that even fucking exist?? 31.7% of men would 🍇 a woman if there were no consequences. And those are just the people who answered honestly. Why haven’t we reached a point where any form of SA is not even on the list of things that’s permissible to do to another human being? You know, like cannibalism? That’s pretty much universally reviled right? May I ask why SA isn’t on that list of things that are universally reviled? Would this change if the stats were flipped and majority of SA’s were carried out against men? So very often, it was someone the victim knew. Someone the victim loved. Are we supposed to walk around fearing and distrusting everyone? Even those closest to us? Or do we also “not all men” ourselves and hope for the best? “Please, I hope he loves me more than he loves getting his rocks off.” “Please, I hope he genuinely sees me as a human being.” “Please, I hope he is part of the 68.3%.” Really? Are there more men who are willing to do the work to see how the patriarchy harms them, to see how they knowingly or unknowingly uphold the systems that harm us ALL and make this world disproportionately more dangerous for women and then do something about it? I am not a man, I have not experienced how the patriarchy specifically harms men, here are some men who are doing some great work exploring that and re-imagining how things could be. @therealbenhurst @beyond_equality @mantalks @sheisnotyourrehab @brandontalksmarriage @tatemichaelsmith @thespeechprof If you have more resources, please share them. One thing I hope to see more is men asking themselves what they can do instead of defending themselves with “Not all men.” I am so grateful for Gisele’s bravery and courage. Shame must change sides. Merci, Gisele.
This was extraordinarily painful to put together. The levels of violence being inflicted on another human being is heartbreaking. The normalisation of that violence is terrifying. Why does a website like that even fucking exist?? 31.7% of men would 🍇 a woman if there were no consequences. And those are just the people who answered honestly. Why haven’t we reached a point where any form of SA is not even on the list of things that’s permissible to do to another human being? You know, like cannibalism? That’s pretty much universally reviled right? May I ask why SA isn’t on that list of things that are universally reviled? Would this change if the stats were flipped and majority of SA’s were carried out against men? So very often, it was someone the victim knew. Someone the victim loved. Are we supposed to walk around fearing and distrusting everyone? Even those closest to us? Or do we also “not all men” ourselves and hope for the best? “Please, I hope he loves me more than he loves getting his rocks off.” “Please, I hope he genuinely sees me as a human being.” “Please, I hope he is part of the 68.3%.” Really? Are there more men who are willing to do the work to see how the patriarchy harms them, to see how they knowingly or unknowingly uphold the systems that harm us ALL and make this world disproportionately more dangerous for women and then do something about it? I am not a man, I have not experienced how the patriarchy specifically harms men, here are some men who are doing some great work exploring that and re-imagining how things could be. @therealbenhurst @beyond_equality @mantalks @sheisnotyourrehab @brandontalksmarriage @tatemichaelsmith @thespeechprof If you have more resources, please share them. One thing I hope to see more is men asking themselves what they can do instead of defending themselves with “Not all men.” I am so grateful for Gisele’s bravery and courage. Shame must change sides. Merci, Gisele.
This was extraordinarily painful to put together. The levels of violence being inflicted on another human being is heartbreaking. The normalisation of that violence is terrifying. Why does a website like that even fucking exist?? 31.7% of men would 🍇 a woman if there were no consequences. And those are just the people who answered honestly. Why haven’t we reached a point where any form of SA is not even on the list of things that’s permissible to do to another human being? You know, like cannibalism? That’s pretty much universally reviled right? May I ask why SA isn’t on that list of things that are universally reviled? Would this change if the stats were flipped and majority of SA’s were carried out against men? So very often, it was someone the victim knew. Someone the victim loved. Are we supposed to walk around fearing and distrusting everyone? Even those closest to us? Or do we also “not all men” ourselves and hope for the best? “Please, I hope he loves me more than he loves getting his rocks off.” “Please, I hope he genuinely sees me as a human being.” “Please, I hope he is part of the 68.3%.” Really? Are there more men who are willing to do the work to see how the patriarchy harms them, to see how they knowingly or unknowingly uphold the systems that harm us ALL and make this world disproportionately more dangerous for women and then do something about it? I am not a man, I have not experienced how the patriarchy specifically harms men, here are some men who are doing some great work exploring that and re-imagining how things could be. @therealbenhurst @beyond_equality @mantalks @sheisnotyourrehab @brandontalksmarriage @tatemichaelsmith @thespeechprof If you have more resources, please share them. One thing I hope to see more is men asking themselves what they can do instead of defending themselves with “Not all men.” I am so grateful for Gisele’s bravery and courage. Shame must change sides. Merci, Gisele.
This was extraordinarily painful to put together. The levels of violence being inflicted on another human being is heartbreaking. The normalisation of that violence is terrifying. Why does a website like that even fucking exist?? 31.7% of men would 🍇 a woman if there were no consequences. And those are just the people who answered honestly. Why haven’t we reached a point where any form of SA is not even on the list of things that’s permissible to do to another human being? You know, like cannibalism? That’s pretty much universally reviled right? May I ask why SA isn’t on that list of things that are universally reviled? Would this change if the stats were flipped and majority of SA’s were carried out against men? So very often, it was someone the victim knew. Someone the victim loved. Are we supposed to walk around fearing and distrusting everyone? Even those closest to us? Or do we also “not all men” ourselves and hope for the best? “Please, I hope he loves me more than he loves getting his rocks off.” “Please, I hope he genuinely sees me as a human being.” “Please, I hope he is part of the 68.3%.” Really? Are there more men who are willing to do the work to see how the patriarchy harms them, to see how they knowingly or unknowingly uphold the systems that harm us ALL and make this world disproportionately more dangerous for women and then do something about it? I am not a man, I have not experienced how the patriarchy specifically harms men, here are some men who are doing some great work exploring that and re-imagining how things could be. @therealbenhurst @beyond_equality @mantalks @sheisnotyourrehab @brandontalksmarriage @tatemichaelsmith @thespeechprof If you have more resources, please share them. One thing I hope to see more is men asking themselves what they can do instead of defending themselves with “Not all men.” I am so grateful for Gisele’s bravery and courage. Shame must change sides. Merci, Gisele.
This was extraordinarily painful to put together. The levels of violence being inflicted on another human being is heartbreaking. The normalisation of that violence is terrifying. Why does a website like that even fucking exist?? 31.7% of men would 🍇 a woman if there were no consequences. And those are just the people who answered honestly. Why haven’t we reached a point where any form of SA is not even on the list of things that’s permissible to do to another human being? You know, like cannibalism? That’s pretty much universally reviled right? May I ask why SA isn’t on that list of things that are universally reviled? Would this change if the stats were flipped and majority of SA’s were carried out against men? So very often, it was someone the victim knew. Someone the victim loved. Are we supposed to walk around fearing and distrusting everyone? Even those closest to us? Or do we also “not all men” ourselves and hope for the best? “Please, I hope he loves me more than he loves getting his rocks off.” “Please, I hope he genuinely sees me as a human being.” “Please, I hope he is part of the 68.3%.” Really? Are there more men who are willing to do the work to see how the patriarchy harms them, to see how they knowingly or unknowingly uphold the systems that harm us ALL and make this world disproportionately more dangerous for women and then do something about it? I am not a man, I have not experienced how the patriarchy specifically harms men, here are some men who are doing some great work exploring that and re-imagining how things could be. @therealbenhurst @beyond_equality @mantalks @sheisnotyourrehab @brandontalksmarriage @tatemichaelsmith @thespeechprof If you have more resources, please share them. One thing I hope to see more is men asking themselves what they can do instead of defending themselves with “Not all men.” I am so grateful for Gisele’s bravery and courage. Shame must change sides. Merci, Gisele.