Earlier when we were dating, I remember telling my partner— I don’t fight with anyone but you 😒 And that felt quite frustrating because I didn’t fight w my friends, I didn’t fight with people at work so I thought there was something wrong w my partner which is why we were fighting 🥊 ✨ But the truth is: we were fighting because we were so close. ✨ We would discuss families, and insecurities and talk about finances and all such difficult topics which could lead to conflict — topics I wasn’t discussing with anyone else ✨ I would also have such high expectations of him so if he didn’t mean it, I would feel hurt & that would lead to a fight — but I never had such expectations from others hence no fight 💛 The point is: you as a couple face a lot of things together and u spend the most time each others, discussing deep topics where friction is bound to happen! So make sure you don’t think there’s something wrong with your partner: and give them the credit of being close to the “real version of you” hence there’s more chances of conflict and that’s okay because: ⭐️ That is how you grow ⭐️ 🤍🤍 Share with your partner & follow me to build strong, lasting relationships💕💕 . . Long distance couple, couple fights, problem solving, relationship building, trust, healing, love, Rutvi Bhatt, Rootvi, Relationship Coach . . #couples #relationshipgoals #datingadvice #relationships #fights #love #couples #couplegoals #desicouple #india #mumbai
It is really easy to give up or get fed up of your relationship if it isn’t perfect or smooth sailing ▫️ It is really easy to wanna judge and hate our partners for having fights ▫️ It is really easy to say I’ll just find someone better who understands me and break up with your partner Escaping and running away from problems ❌rather than solving them is always easier ✔️ but it isn’t always BETTER! 👉🏾 If you want to have abs for example, is that easy? Actually it’s really hard to diet & avoid all the yummy foods. It’s actually really hard to wake up and go to the gym even when u don’t want to! It’s really hard— but when u get through the hard you get 💪🏽 It’s the same with relationships ♥️♥️ 🫶 When you choose to stay through the hard and instead of giving up you both work to understand each other, and learn to love each other the right away — the hard goes away and you’re left with a beautiful, loving, lasting relationship ♥️♥️♥️ And remember, dating and relationships aren’t hard— challenges are and u can always get through it together 🕊️🤍 ✨✨ Send this to them & let them know how much they means to you ✨✨ . . . #longdistance #longdistancerelationship #longdistancecouples #couples #relationshipgoals #datingadvice #relationships #fights #mindset #mentor #love #couples #couplegoals #date #couplegoals #mindset #longdistancerelationship #desicouple #indian #india #mumbai #delhi #motivation
Every human being has a different reaction to a fight — I cry while my partner shuts down 🥹 👉🏾 This doesn’t mean I think his reaction is toxic and neither does he think mine is.. 👉🏾 Every human has a way of dealing with fights and you need to allow them to express themselves in a way that will help them feel better So if you can your partner: 💭 Crying breathlessly— don’t think it’s stupid or toxic – think again, maybe they’re overwhelmed w emotions and that’s why they’re crying 💭 Needing space — don’t think they don’t care or are indifferent, maybe they need silence and time away to process what just happened 💭 Changing behavior — if they’re talking less now, or are a little scared or cold, they’re not doing this to hurt you. They simply are protecting themselves 💭 Being quiet — they’re just preventing saying anything wrong or hurting you further: they’re not toxic. 💭 Not apologizing right away — they’re not toxic, sometimes it takes sometime to let go off your ego and remind urself of the love u hold before u can apologize 💛 Please remember: your partner’s reaction to a fight is not “toxic” it’s normal to who they are: even if it doesn’t match ur expectations! Let’s understand each other better and love each other ✨🫶 ✉️ Share this with ur partner & FOLLOW me for more Relationship Content 💗 . . . Long distance couple, couple fights, problem solving, relationship building, trust, healing, love, Rutvi Bhatt, Rootvi, Relationship Coach . . #couples #relationshipgoals #datingadvice #relationships #fights #love #couples #couplegoals #desicouple #india #mumbai #longdistance #longdistancerelationship #longdistancecouples #couples #relationshipgoals #datingadvice #relationships #fights #mindset #mentor #love #couples #couplegoals #date #couplegoals #mindset #longdistancerelationship #desicouple #india #mumbai #delhi #motivation
I want you to identify these signs & remember them so next time you’re able to spot it & tell yourself why u maybe feeling a certain way ❤️🩹 Everyone talks about self-love without truly explaining the repercussions of it ❌ There’s myriad ways in which u can love yourself and a lack of self love ❤️🩹 is very damaging for your well being 💫 So here’s a run down of things that *could* indicate a lack of self-love: ✨ Fighting with people — when you catch yourself repeatedly getting into silly fights with people you love, it’s a clear sign your brain isn’t able to process emotions and situations well because it’s not nourished. Make sure to look at ur mental health & give it love 💕 ✨ You seem to easily get hurt and triggered by others — when you’re emotionally unstable and not doing things to take care of urself, it’s very easy to let other people’s words and actions break you down! It’s a sign u need some love 💕 ✨ Constantly Comparing & Competing — If you seem to be sitting their comparing urself to others around u or on social or trying to be who you are not to compete with others around you — That’s a clear sign you’re avoiding your reality & you aren’t proud of who you truly are! Let’s fix that with some self love 💕 ✨ Lack of motivation — when you’re not doing enough things to make yourself happy, it’s very tough to find the zeal to go above and beyond to chase your dreams 💭 A lack of motivation means you need vitamin self-love 💕 ✨ Poor Choices— Be it not sticking to ur diet or calling someone u said you wouldn’t call, or saying something u don’t mean. A lot of these behaviors and poor choices show that you don’t have control over your mind and emotions. So begin by filling your cup and you’ll see the difference in ur life 💕 ✨ Repost this as a promise to work on urself🕊️ 🌟Hope this helped you, save and share with a friend 🌟 . #longdistance #longdistancerelationship #longdistancecouples #couples #relationshipgoals #datingadvice #relationships #fights #mindset #mentor #love #couples #couplegoals #mindset #desicouple #indian #india #mumbai #delhi #motivation
The older I get, the more money I make, the more I realize — I want it less for the bags, shoes, cars and all the jazz ✨ 👉🏾 because while the materialistic things give me joy, the joy is temporary and short lived 💛 but the happiness of seeing a smile on someone else’s face because of you – that is priceless. 🫶 the happiness of making your parents travel to new places 🫶 the joy of buying my family things for no reason.. without occasion. Just cause! 🫶 the happiness of telling your friends I got the bill don’t worry about it 🫶 the happiness buying things because I like them not because the tag is affordable 🫶 the happiness from being able to help people in need without a second thought … I want that kind of wealth.. it’s the most amazing feeling in the world and I want to experience that ✨🫶 💪🏽 so here’s to working hard and earning a lot of money— and being rich 💸💸 ‼️ repost this if you feel the same way! 🤍🤍 Share with your partner & follow me to build strong, lasting relationships💕💕 . . Long distance couple, couple fights, problem solving, relationship building, trust, healing, love, Rutvi Bhatt, Rootvi, Relationship Coach . . #couples #relationshipgoals #datingadvice #relationships #fights #love #couples #couplegoals #desicouple #india #mumbai
🔈 Dear men, stop getting annoyed at your girlfriend — we all want this: u can’t escape it! 💛 we love taking pictures, capturing moments, and even if no one else will look at it, I will watch my own story 20 times soooo pleaseeee just let us! 🤭🤭🤭 ‼️ send this to them and enjoy ✨ . . . Relationship, couples, funny, relationship advice . #emotional #emotions #failure #hardwork #success #grind #emotionalintelligence #emotions #longdistancerelationship #longdistancecouples #couples #relationshipgoals #datingadvice #relationships #fights #mindset #mentor #love #couples #couplegoals #date #couplegoals #mindset #desicouple #indian #india #mumbai #delhi #motivation
Big cities, good coffee & fresh baked goods = my happy place 🫶💛✨
Big cities, good coffee & fresh baked goods = my happy place 🫶💛✨
Big cities, good coffee & fresh baked goods = my happy place 🫶💛✨
Big cities, good coffee & fresh baked goods = my happy place 🫶💛✨
Big cities, good coffee & fresh baked goods = my happy place 🫶💛✨
Big cities, good coffee & fresh baked goods = my happy place 🫶💛✨
I usually like everyone but there are some people I’ve come across who drain me— and I literally have a reaction to them no matter what 😔 👉🏾 when people pretend to be fake nice to others when in reality you know their words and actions don’t align with their intension: it makes me very sad 👉🏾 when people pretend to show care and help but roll their eyes in the background or make fun of you it really gets to me 👉🏾 when people look down upon others and judge their wealth and looks, it triggers me soooo much 👉🏾 when people have two sides to their personality on purpose.. when they can be nice and kind to others but not to you.. it feels unfair You know why? BECAUSE I AM ME‼️‼️ and I don’t know how to be different.. if I’m happy, sad, scared, upset, excited— it all shows on my face🥹 I don’t know how to pretend or act! 💛💛 I am who I am and I don’t know how to hide it — I will always love to deeply, care too much, and worry a lot, but that’s who I am & I’m proud of that 💛💛 🫶 Repost this if you feel this too! And share with someone who can understand what you mean! 💓 and follow me for becoming emotionally intelligent and building strong relationships✨ #emotional #emotions #failure #hardwork #success #grind #emotionalintelligence #emotions #longdistancerelationship #longdistancecouples #couples #relationshipgoals #datingadvice #relationships #fights #mindset #mentor #love #couples #couplegoals #date #couplegoals #mindset #desicouple #indian #india #mumbai #delhi #motivation
We think of love very one dimensionally —and that we can only receive it from one person 🥰 🫶 But there are certain romantic moments that make you feel love in a non-obvious way and it’s so heartwarming! 💛 Like your mom bringing you freshly cut fruits, a baby laughing out loud, the breeze blowing mist on your face or your partner’s arm on your thigh when they sense you’re anxious — that is all love 🫶 So use this post as a reminder to find romance in your life — not just from your partner but from everything around you ✨ 🤍🤍 follow me to build strong, lasting relationships💕💕 . . Long distance couple, couple fights, problem solving, relationship building, trust, healing, love, Rutvi Bhatt, Rootvi, Relationship Coach . . #couples #relationshipgoals #datingadvice #relationships #fights #love #couples #couplegoals #desicouple #india #mumbai
We think of love very one dimensionally —and that we can only receive it from one person 🥰 🫶 But there are certain romantic moments that make you feel love in a non-obvious way and it’s so heartwarming! 💛 Like your mom bringing you freshly cut fruits, a baby laughing out loud, the breeze blowing mist on your face or your partner’s arm on your thigh when they sense you’re anxious — that is all love 🫶 So use this post as a reminder to find romance in your life — not just from your partner but from everything around you ✨ 🤍🤍 follow me to build strong, lasting relationships💕💕 . . Long distance couple, couple fights, problem solving, relationship building, trust, healing, love, Rutvi Bhatt, Rootvi, Relationship Coach . . #couples #relationshipgoals #datingadvice #relationships #fights #love #couples #couplegoals #desicouple #india #mumbai
Love can be expressed in the most non-obvious ways — it’s just about us looking to notice ✨ 🫶 Most couples that I do coaching with tell me that they feel a lack of love in their relationship and it takes us a lot work to then realize they’ve been loving them all along, just maybe in a way they didn’t notice or recognize! 🫶 We expect to get love in the way we give out love but that’s not always true: our partner can love us through silent actions, forgiveness, understanding and care without making it explicit that they love you! 🥹💛 So if either of you in your relationship have had a complain about not feeling loved — send this to your partner and start telling each other all the beautiful gestures you do have in your relationship which you may not have noticed ✨ 💌 Send this to your partner and remind yourself that a relationship is work and recognition! . . . . . . . . . . #emotional #emotions #failure #hardwork #success #grind #emotionalintelligence #emotions #longdistancerelationship #longdistancecouples #couples #relationshipgoals #datingadvice #relationships #fights #mindset #mentor #love #couples #couplegoals #date #couplegoals #mindset #desicouple #indian #india #mumbai #delhi #motivation
Love can be expressed in the most non-obvious ways — it’s just about us looking to notice ✨ 🫶 Most couples that I do coaching with tell me that they feel a lack of love in their relationship and it takes us a lot work to then realize they’ve been loving them all along, just maybe in a way they didn’t notice or recognize! 🫶 We expect to get love in the way we give out love but that’s not always true: our partner can love us through silent actions, forgiveness, understanding and care without making it explicit that they love you! 🥹💛 So if either of you in your relationship have had a complain about not feeling loved — send this to your partner and start telling each other all the beautiful gestures you do have in your relationship which you may not have noticed ✨ 💌 Send this to your partner and remind yourself that a relationship is work and recognition! . . . . . . . . . . #emotional #emotions #failure #hardwork #success #grind #emotionalintelligence #emotions #longdistancerelationship #longdistancecouples #couples #relationshipgoals #datingadvice #relationships #fights #mindset #mentor #love #couples #couplegoals #date #couplegoals #mindset #desicouple #indian #india #mumbai #delhi #motivation
Love can be expressed in the most non-obvious ways — it’s just about us looking to notice ✨ 🫶 Most couples that I do coaching with tell me that they feel a lack of love in their relationship and it takes us a lot work to then realize they’ve been loving them all along, just maybe in a way they didn’t notice or recognize! 🫶 We expect to get love in the way we give out love but that’s not always true: our partner can love us through silent actions, forgiveness, understanding and care without making it explicit that they love you! 🥹💛 So if either of you in your relationship have had a complain about not feeling loved — send this to your partner and start telling each other all the beautiful gestures you do have in your relationship which you may not have noticed ✨ 💌 Send this to your partner and remind yourself that a relationship is work and recognition! . . . . . . . . . . #emotional #emotions #failure #hardwork #success #grind #emotionalintelligence #emotions #longdistancerelationship #longdistancecouples #couples #relationshipgoals #datingadvice #relationships #fights #mindset #mentor #love #couples #couplegoals #date #couplegoals #mindset #desicouple #indian #india #mumbai #delhi #motivation
Love can be expressed in the most non-obvious ways — it’s just about us looking to notice ✨ 🫶 Most couples that I do coaching with tell me that they feel a lack of love in their relationship and it takes us a lot work to then realize they’ve been loving them all along, just maybe in a way they didn’t notice or recognize! 🫶 We expect to get love in the way we give out love but that’s not always true: our partner can love us through silent actions, forgiveness, understanding and care without making it explicit that they love you! 🥹💛 So if either of you in your relationship have had a complain about not feeling loved — send this to your partner and start telling each other all the beautiful gestures you do have in your relationship which you may not have noticed ✨ 💌 Send this to your partner and remind yourself that a relationship is work and recognition! . . . . . . . . . . #emotional #emotions #failure #hardwork #success #grind #emotionalintelligence #emotions #longdistancerelationship #longdistancecouples #couples #relationshipgoals #datingadvice #relationships #fights #mindset #mentor #love #couples #couplegoals #date #couplegoals #mindset #desicouple #indian #india #mumbai #delhi #motivation
Love can be expressed in the most non-obvious ways — it’s just about us looking to notice ✨ 🫶 Most couples that I do coaching with tell me that they feel a lack of love in their relationship and it takes us a lot work to then realize they’ve been loving them all along, just maybe in a way they didn’t notice or recognize! 🫶 We expect to get love in the way we give out love but that’s not always true: our partner can love us through silent actions, forgiveness, understanding and care without making it explicit that they love you! 🥹💛 So if either of you in your relationship have had a complain about not feeling loved — send this to your partner and start telling each other all the beautiful gestures you do have in your relationship which you may not have noticed ✨ 💌 Send this to your partner and remind yourself that a relationship is work and recognition! . . . . . . . . . . #emotional #emotions #failure #hardwork #success #grind #emotionalintelligence #emotions #longdistancerelationship #longdistancecouples #couples #relationshipgoals #datingadvice #relationships #fights #mindset #mentor #love #couples #couplegoals #date #couplegoals #mindset #desicouple #indian #india #mumbai #delhi #motivation
Love can be expressed in the most non-obvious ways — it’s just about us looking to notice ✨ 🫶 Most couples that I do coaching with tell me that they feel a lack of love in their relationship and it takes us a lot work to then realize they’ve been loving them all along, just maybe in a way they didn’t notice or recognize! 🫶 We expect to get love in the way we give out love but that’s not always true: our partner can love us through silent actions, forgiveness, understanding and care without making it explicit that they love you! 🥹💛 So if either of you in your relationship have had a complain about not feeling loved — send this to your partner and start telling each other all the beautiful gestures you do have in your relationship which you may not have noticed ✨ 💌 Send this to your partner and remind yourself that a relationship is work and recognition! . . . . . . . . . . #emotional #emotions #failure #hardwork #success #grind #emotionalintelligence #emotions #longdistancerelationship #longdistancecouples #couples #relationshipgoals #datingadvice #relationships #fights #mindset #mentor #love #couples #couplegoals #date #couplegoals #mindset #desicouple #indian #india #mumbai #delhi #motivation
The older I grow, the more I realize I’m becoming my parents??? The same parents I would get mad at or irritated at when I was younger: now I think like them and it all makes sense 🤷♀️ It’s in the small things: 👉🏾 When we go out and someone suggests eating out — I think oh there’s food already cooked at home why waste that 👉🏾 When restaurants play really loud music — I remember my dad who till date can’t stand restaurants like that and would sit quietly rather than yelling and talking 👉🏾 Before buying random things I used to once beg my parents for: now I automatically think money saved is money earned just the way my mom says it 🙃 I was shocked at myself when I took that money covered and saved it for later?¿ I mean what? ✨ But then I reflected someone and realized all the things I am doing that makes me feel like I’m becoming my parents— are beautiful things 👏🏽 ✨ Things I should be incredibly proud of and guess what I am really proud! 🫶 they taught me how to save, protect and value things and I love that — it just took me a minute to realize that! Just the way mumma says, “when you grow up you’ll understand” 🤍 repost this if this is you TOO & send it to ur parents and say love you!!! ❤️ Follow me as I help your shift your mindset everyday ❤️ . . . . [parents,Anxiety, overthinking, mindfulness, self love, relationships, love, couple, dating advice, long distance relationship, mindset] #anxiety #mindful #selflove #mindset #mentalhealthsupport #india #mumbai #couples #love #relationships
I’m a daughter and I never realized what my parents must have gone through while raising me 🥹 ✨ Now when I’m older and married and I think about having a daughter — it’s scares me and it’s so unfair 😡 🥹 we sadly live in a world where having a daughter comes with worries: 👉🏾 worries about her safety 👉🏾 worries about men looking at her the wrong way 👉🏾 worries about equality at work 👉🏾 worries about having her leave her comfort and home and get married and move in with another family — and trust that they’ll love her the same? 💛🫶 Being a girl is the biggest blessing and my parents never let me feel otherwise! ‼️ but I do wish, we live in a world, where women are safe, protected and loved! 💪🏽🫶 repost this to help make the world a little better for all of us ✨ 💓 and follow me for becoming emotionally intelligent and building strong relationships✨ #emotional #emotions #failure #hardwork #success #grind #emotionalintelligence #emotions #longdistancerelationship #longdistancecouples #couples #relationshipgoals #datingadvice #relationships #fights #mindset #mentor #love #couples #couplegoals #date #couplegoals #mindset #desicouple #indian #india #mumbai #delhi #motivation
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