Kass coming home to bbq with us today so I’ve been up all morning sitting outside watching the front gates like the little bitch that I am now…..😝😊🔥🤸🏽♂️#singlemomstrong
MC be on two hours sleep here. He’s amazing sometimes and sometimes he’s an asshole. We are all assholes in our family at times but we have family meetings about it, we talk through it, we NEVER just pretend something isn’t happening or didn’t happen that hurt and we have normalized taking responsibility & apologizing to each other. I’m filled with love that this man chooses to raise our kids with his humor & loyalty intact. But most of all I just love him because he shows up. No matter what he shows up for both of our kids. Even on two hours sleep……
Today I believe in laughter.
Go towards the laughter….. #love
She had never missed one event with Kassius. Not one. She said she just wanted to live long enough to see our son, her godson play the lead in his final musical Footloose & to simply see him graduate from CH. She didn’t & I was so mad about that. Now, none of us are either & I wish she were here to make me laugh until I cry about all of the loss the world is experiencing. #BunnyBunny
A normal daily lunch w #bunny
I’m so shook by this father and son. 😊 Makes me believe in the world and our future. #realdads #realmen #badassmoms @enkyboys 🇲🇽
Kassius’ Bacclarette graduation ceremony for @campbellhallvikings on zoom. Time to let this generation take over. Listen…….🙏🏽 For all of you asking about the beautiful singers. They are also #2020graduates & you can see more of them in the Documentary on Kassius’ play #footloosethemusical the journey, the hard work, the joy of their dreams coming true only then to experience the unimaginable loss on their opening night with the shut down of their show. Later realizing THAT day would also turn out to be their last day ever on campus because of Covid19 🙏🏽 “It is who you are in the face of adversity that shows your true character” I will be posting the doc for you all. #FootloosetheDocumentary @chclassof2020 @campbellhallvikings @kassius_marcil_green
This is still my fav cut by @iammskye ❤️
….today on @eentertainment
We don’t run from grief. We dive into it. We encourage crying, anger & sadness in a safe environment where it doesn’t bleed onto others later. That’s just how we do it. 🙏🏽 How are you all dealing with your grief? 😭
#SamMarquez
Life coach tips by @kassius_marcil_green #paparazzitips #lifecoach #Buddhamen
Our private island- Never ever ever give up….
Best fans(friends) in the world. Here’s a tribute to Suzanne Whang, @kassius_marcil_green godmother…. Thk you @ilyssae1216
No words left. #classof2020🎓 @kassius_marcil_green
This is coming……. I will be posting it for you guys. 😭 😊 #Footloose #NeverGiveUp #seniors2020🎓 #Heroes
Happy Fathers Day MC. You are our protector, our leader….our friend. ❤️
It’s been the pleasure of my life………
Gagoo’s traditional signs that she makes for all of Kassius’ celebrations!!!This one being the most meaningful, joyful & painful all at the same time. This one is sent from a distance as we head to Kassius’ drive thru graduation. 😷 This is the greatest moment of our lives thus far yet the world is in the midst of such uncertainty. As per usual when change is coming it is painful & full of loss and HOPE. At age 20, I moved to Hollywood & made all of my dreams come true with hard work. With never giving up & believing that goodness and Love must always win in the end. THAT is my god. GOODNESS and inclusivity. Not shame, not rules, not judgment, not gossip, not righteousness, not a white man with a beard who’s handling everything. I remember when I was a kid I wondered why none of the angels or my “fathers” on the walls of church were brown like me? I was terrified to sleep because the nuns said that I would burn in the fires of hell if I didn’t ask for forgiveness for being a “sinner” I always thought that the devil was in my closet & under my bed because I did fit in to the picture of perfection. That’s never how I would treat my child & FOR ME, that’s not how I believe that my creator would ever treat me or my child. I hope for a change towards love and empathy & TOLERANCE for all of us of all kindsmy son is the first mexican man in our family to EVER graduate from a private college prep high school, to ever go onto college, to ever be an empathetic philanthropist. To be brave enough to choose to be an artist for a living. I’m certain he is NOT the first proud mexican gay man out of the Ortiz/Marcil or Green family but he is the first man in our family who is free. He lives FREE, kind, fighting for others and today is a man. The world is in this generations hands. I have ALWAYS listened to Kassius. I will continue to listen to our youth. The world is bright with them taking the reins. Gagoo can’t be with us today & I never ever thought that could happen. I’ve dreamt of this day my whole life. Watching my son break the chain of abuse and shame in my family. But she is healthy and with us in heart and soul & of course, ON FACETIME!!!!!!!!!! Holla! #Classof2020
@kassius_marcil_green I am so proud of you always. I admire you. I am here with you forever. Together…we will NEVER EVER GIVE UP #classof2020🎓
I used to fill Kass’ room with so many balloons he couldn’t see through them when he walked into his room. There would be cake, candles and new pet baby crabs in a glass house. We would jump on the bed together & celebrate. The occasion? None. No special “holiday” We have always celebrated at our house regularly, that we are alive and together and we celebrate that Kassius simply walked through that front door to come home to me. I realize now just how smart we are to do this. To celebrate today. Everyday. We will never ever know when it may be our last. #SayYes
