WHICH ONES DO YOU HAVE?
The latest book in the ‘Welcome to’ series is ‘Welcome to Sex’ – out May 17 π₯πππ½
I’ve been reflecting on why there’s a need for this book.
Did you see @jessicahelenhill and @tosca_looby17’s show on SBS ‘ASKING FOR IT’? It started a lot of conversations about consent and sex.
It spelled out the need for clear-eyed, unflinching sex education. Particularly for young people. And while school sex ed continues to be timid and fear-based, hamstrung by religion and politics, PORN is taking ideas around sex and galloping our kids into new and dangerous territory. And let’s be honest: we’re not in control of that horse.
What’s the antidote?
The antidote to the shitty messages that kids get from porn is
SEX EDUCATION.
Porn can NOT be the only depictions and explanations of sex that our kids receive! No!
If schools can’t provide it, we parents can. And if we, as parents, don’t know the answers to all our kids’ questions and worries? Or if we’re worried we’ll get it wrong or say something embarrassing? We can consult trusted, researched resources.
Pre-order our book through the link in my bio or look for it in every bookstore this coming week.
MANY of the discussions around consent, the putrid effects of porn on real-world sex, and keeping us all safe in moments of intimacy – come back to teaching about sex and consent – AND STARTING THAT TEACHING YOUNG.
This book is coming out in 2 weeks. And I like to think of it as a bit like the book L-platers read before hitting the road. It is a book for young ones who aren’t necessarily practising any partnered sexual activities but who are curious enough to google – and whose parents would prefer this early (and influential!) info come from legitimate and researched sources who understand exactly who their audience is — rather than the unbounded limitlessness of the internet.
YES, it’s frank, and YES, it talks about stuff that parents might find embarrassing. Research shows that kids don’t necessarily want to talk about sex with their parents. It’s common. But parents? I hope this is a reassuring resource that you can slap down on your kid’s desk feeling confident that this info is setting them up for safer, happier lives.
Pre-order via the link in my bio.
And before you ask “what age, exactly?”
It depends where your kid is at in maturity. Roughly 10-15 years old but I’d be happy with a mature and smart 8-yo having a flick through.
RELEASE WEEK FOR WELCOME TO SEX π₯³π
Talking about sex is taboo – even among adults. But all the studies say the same things:
1. Sex education does NOT cause kids to engage in sex earlier – in fact the opposite. Studies show that comprehensive sex ed results in later first time sexual experiences.
2. Consent education and sex education is absolutely crucial in setting our kids up for safer futures and counteracting the toxic messaging of porn.
3. Kids being exposed to porn is commonplace and can start as young as 10. Half of all boys in Australia aged 14 have viewed explicit porn. None of us agreed that this was okay, but this is what’s happening.
Shame around sex / talking about sex is something a lot of us inherited from our parents and from our cultures.
It doesn’t mean our children have to be raised in the same culture ππΌ
And it doesn’t mean we have to passively let porn be our kids’ sex education.
RELEASE WEEK FOR WELCOME TO SEX π₯³π
Talking about sex is taboo – even among adults. But all the studies say the same things:
1. Sex education does NOT cause kids to engage in sex earlier – in fact the opposite. Studies show that comprehensive sex ed results in later first time sexual experiences.
2. Consent education and sex education is absolutely crucial in setting our kids up for safer futures and counteracting the toxic messaging of porn.
3. Kids being exposed to porn is commonplace and can start as young as 10. Half of all boys in Australia aged 14 have viewed explicit porn. None of us agreed that this was okay, but this is what’s happening.
Shame around sex / talking about sex is something a lot of us inherited from our parents and from our cultures.
It doesn’t mean our children have to be raised in the same culture ππΌ
And it doesn’t mean we have to passively let porn be our kids’ sex education.
RELEASE WEEK FOR WELCOME TO SEX π₯³π
Talking about sex is taboo – even among adults. But all the studies say the same things:
1. Sex education does NOT cause kids to engage in sex earlier – in fact the opposite. Studies show that comprehensive sex ed results in later first time sexual experiences.
2. Consent education and sex education is absolutely crucial in setting our kids up for safer futures and counteracting the toxic messaging of porn.
3. Kids being exposed to porn is commonplace and can start as young as 10. Half of all boys in Australia aged 14 have viewed explicit porn. None of us agreed that this was okay, but this is what’s happening.
Shame around sex / talking about sex is something a lot of us inherited from our parents and from our cultures.
It doesn’t mean our children have to be raised in the same culture ππΌ
And it doesn’t mean we have to passively let porn be our kids’ sex education.
RELEASE WEEK FOR WELCOME TO SEX π₯³π
Talking about sex is taboo – even among adults. But all the studies say the same things:
1. Sex education does NOT cause kids to engage in sex earlier – in fact the opposite. Studies show that comprehensive sex ed results in later first time sexual experiences.
2. Consent education and sex education is absolutely crucial in setting our kids up for safer futures and counteracting the toxic messaging of porn.
3. Kids being exposed to porn is commonplace and can start as young as 10. Half of all boys in Australia aged 14 have viewed explicit porn. None of us agreed that this was okay, but this is what’s happening.
Shame around sex / talking about sex is something a lot of us inherited from our parents and from our cultures.
It doesn’t mean our children have to be raised in the same culture ππΌ
And it doesn’t mean we have to passively let porn be our kids’ sex education.
No high like a half marathon highπ₯³π¨
….also I am ded β°οΈπ€³
A cup-filling weekend away in the Blue Mountains to celebrate @_sarahwilson_’s looming departure overseas π₯² and cover more than 26km of genuinely challenging/ dangerous terrain, fall in mud, laugh deeply (all the way to my cervix) and bathe in pita bread.
1. The crew, the whole crew and nothing but the crew.
2. @_sarahwilson_ and our grumpy 15-year-old @jessmillersydney who sulked and kicked gravel and mumbled.
3. The view from our stunning digs @cloud.parade.leura
4. @timbrownmeditation made sure I didn’t get left behind in the jungle
5. The ironically closed Wikileaks Cafe. Baffling. If you know, explain it to me.
6. Seriously, it’s like Jurassic Park in there! π¦ #BlueMountains
7. I’m filthy but @jeaninebribosia = immaculate.
8. The Ceremony of Giving. How does one gift to a minimalist?
9. Beverly the Doll and Shadow Beverly! πͺ
10. Yumi, Patti, Jeanine, Sarah and Jess. This was taken before any of us had gotten lost/exhausted/off-piste. How young and fresh-faced we were! π€£
A cup-filling weekend away in the Blue Mountains to celebrate @_sarahwilson_’s looming departure overseas π₯² and cover more than 26km of genuinely challenging/ dangerous terrain, fall in mud, laugh deeply (all the way to my cervix) and bathe in pita bread.
1. The crew, the whole crew and nothing but the crew.
2. @_sarahwilson_ and our grumpy 15-year-old @jessmillersydney who sulked and kicked gravel and mumbled.
3. The view from our stunning digs @cloud.parade.leura
4. @timbrownmeditation made sure I didn’t get left behind in the jungle
5. The ironically closed Wikileaks Cafe. Baffling. If you know, explain it to me.
6. Seriously, it’s like Jurassic Park in there! π¦ #BlueMountains
7. I’m filthy but @jeaninebribosia = immaculate.
8. The Ceremony of Giving. How does one gift to a minimalist?
9. Beverly the Doll and Shadow Beverly! πͺ
10. Yumi, Patti, Jeanine, Sarah and Jess. This was taken before any of us had gotten lost/exhausted/off-piste. How young and fresh-faced we were! π€£
A cup-filling weekend away in the Blue Mountains to celebrate @_sarahwilson_’s looming departure overseas π₯² and cover more than 26km of genuinely challenging/ dangerous terrain, fall in mud, laugh deeply (all the way to my cervix) and bathe in pita bread.
1. The crew, the whole crew and nothing but the crew.
2. @_sarahwilson_ and our grumpy 15-year-old @jessmillersydney who sulked and kicked gravel and mumbled.
3. The view from our stunning digs @cloud.parade.leura
4. @timbrownmeditation made sure I didn’t get left behind in the jungle
5. The ironically closed Wikileaks Cafe. Baffling. If you know, explain it to me.
6. Seriously, it’s like Jurassic Park in there! π¦ #BlueMountains
7. I’m filthy but @jeaninebribosia = immaculate.
8. The Ceremony of Giving. How does one gift to a minimalist?
9. Beverly the Doll and Shadow Beverly! πͺ
10. Yumi, Patti, Jeanine, Sarah and Jess. This was taken before any of us had gotten lost/exhausted/off-piste. How young and fresh-faced we were! π€£
A cup-filling weekend away in the Blue Mountains to celebrate @_sarahwilson_’s looming departure overseas π₯² and cover more than 26km of genuinely challenging/ dangerous terrain, fall in mud, laugh deeply (all the way to my cervix) and bathe in pita bread.
1. The crew, the whole crew and nothing but the crew.
2. @_sarahwilson_ and our grumpy 15-year-old @jessmillersydney who sulked and kicked gravel and mumbled.
3. The view from our stunning digs @cloud.parade.leura
4. @timbrownmeditation made sure I didn’t get left behind in the jungle
5. The ironically closed Wikileaks Cafe. Baffling. If you know, explain it to me.
6. Seriously, it’s like Jurassic Park in there! π¦ #BlueMountains
7. I’m filthy but @jeaninebribosia = immaculate.
8. The Ceremony of Giving. How does one gift to a minimalist?
9. Beverly the Doll and Shadow Beverly! πͺ
10. Yumi, Patti, Jeanine, Sarah and Jess. This was taken before any of us had gotten lost/exhausted/off-piste. How young and fresh-faced we were! π€£
A cup-filling weekend away in the Blue Mountains to celebrate @_sarahwilson_’s looming departure overseas π₯² and cover more than 26km of genuinely challenging/ dangerous terrain, fall in mud, laugh deeply (all the way to my cervix) and bathe in pita bread.
1. The crew, the whole crew and nothing but the crew.
2. @_sarahwilson_ and our grumpy 15-year-old @jessmillersydney who sulked and kicked gravel and mumbled.
3. The view from our stunning digs @cloud.parade.leura
4. @timbrownmeditation made sure I didn’t get left behind in the jungle
5. The ironically closed Wikileaks Cafe. Baffling. If you know, explain it to me.
6. Seriously, it’s like Jurassic Park in there! π¦ #BlueMountains
7. I’m filthy but @jeaninebribosia = immaculate.
8. The Ceremony of Giving. How does one gift to a minimalist?
9. Beverly the Doll and Shadow Beverly! πͺ
10. Yumi, Patti, Jeanine, Sarah and Jess. This was taken before any of us had gotten lost/exhausted/off-piste. How young and fresh-faced we were! π€£
A cup-filling weekend away in the Blue Mountains to celebrate @_sarahwilson_’s looming departure overseas π₯² and cover more than 26km of genuinely challenging/ dangerous terrain, fall in mud, laugh deeply (all the way to my cervix) and bathe in pita bread.
1. The crew, the whole crew and nothing but the crew.
2. @_sarahwilson_ and our grumpy 15-year-old @jessmillersydney who sulked and kicked gravel and mumbled.
3. The view from our stunning digs @cloud.parade.leura
4. @timbrownmeditation made sure I didn’t get left behind in the jungle
5. The ironically closed Wikileaks Cafe. Baffling. If you know, explain it to me.
6. Seriously, it’s like Jurassic Park in there! π¦ #BlueMountains
7. I’m filthy but @jeaninebribosia = immaculate.
8. The Ceremony of Giving. How does one gift to a minimalist?
9. Beverly the Doll and Shadow Beverly! πͺ
10. Yumi, Patti, Jeanine, Sarah and Jess. This was taken before any of us had gotten lost/exhausted/off-piste. How young and fresh-faced we were! π€£
A cup-filling weekend away in the Blue Mountains to celebrate @_sarahwilson_’s looming departure overseas π₯² and cover more than 26km of genuinely challenging/ dangerous terrain, fall in mud, laugh deeply (all the way to my cervix) and bathe in pita bread.
1. The crew, the whole crew and nothing but the crew.
2. @_sarahwilson_ and our grumpy 15-year-old @jessmillersydney who sulked and kicked gravel and mumbled.
3. The view from our stunning digs @cloud.parade.leura
4. @timbrownmeditation made sure I didn’t get left behind in the jungle
5. The ironically closed Wikileaks Cafe. Baffling. If you know, explain it to me.
6. Seriously, it’s like Jurassic Park in there! π¦ #BlueMountains
7. I’m filthy but @jeaninebribosia = immaculate.
8. The Ceremony of Giving. How does one gift to a minimalist?
9. Beverly the Doll and Shadow Beverly! πͺ
10. Yumi, Patti, Jeanine, Sarah and Jess. This was taken before any of us had gotten lost/exhausted/off-piste. How young and fresh-faced we were! π€£
A cup-filling weekend away in the Blue Mountains to celebrate @_sarahwilson_’s looming departure overseas π₯² and cover more than 26km of genuinely challenging/ dangerous terrain, fall in mud, laugh deeply (all the way to my cervix) and bathe in pita bread.
1. The crew, the whole crew and nothing but the crew.
2. @_sarahwilson_ and our grumpy 15-year-old @jessmillersydney who sulked and kicked gravel and mumbled.
3. The view from our stunning digs @cloud.parade.leura
4. @timbrownmeditation made sure I didn’t get left behind in the jungle
5. The ironically closed Wikileaks Cafe. Baffling. If you know, explain it to me.
6. Seriously, it’s like Jurassic Park in there! π¦ #BlueMountains
7. I’m filthy but @jeaninebribosia = immaculate.
8. The Ceremony of Giving. How does one gift to a minimalist?
9. Beverly the Doll and Shadow Beverly! πͺ
10. Yumi, Patti, Jeanine, Sarah and Jess. This was taken before any of us had gotten lost/exhausted/off-piste. How young and fresh-faced we were! π€£
A cup-filling weekend away in the Blue Mountains to celebrate @_sarahwilson_’s looming departure overseas π₯² and cover more than 26km of genuinely challenging/ dangerous terrain, fall in mud, laugh deeply (all the way to my cervix) and bathe in pita bread.
1. The crew, the whole crew and nothing but the crew.
2. @_sarahwilson_ and our grumpy 15-year-old @jessmillersydney who sulked and kicked gravel and mumbled.
3. The view from our stunning digs @cloud.parade.leura
4. @timbrownmeditation made sure I didn’t get left behind in the jungle
5. The ironically closed Wikileaks Cafe. Baffling. If you know, explain it to me.
6. Seriously, it’s like Jurassic Park in there! π¦ #BlueMountains
7. I’m filthy but @jeaninebribosia = immaculate.
8. The Ceremony of Giving. How does one gift to a minimalist?
9. Beverly the Doll and Shadow Beverly! πͺ
10. Yumi, Patti, Jeanine, Sarah and Jess. This was taken before any of us had gotten lost/exhausted/off-piste. How young and fresh-faced we were! π€£
A cup-filling weekend away in the Blue Mountains to celebrate @_sarahwilson_’s looming departure overseas π₯² and cover more than 26km of genuinely challenging/ dangerous terrain, fall in mud, laugh deeply (all the way to my cervix) and bathe in pita bread.
1. The crew, the whole crew and nothing but the crew.
2. @_sarahwilson_ and our grumpy 15-year-old @jessmillersydney who sulked and kicked gravel and mumbled.
3. The view from our stunning digs @cloud.parade.leura
4. @timbrownmeditation made sure I didn’t get left behind in the jungle
5. The ironically closed Wikileaks Cafe. Baffling. If you know, explain it to me.
6. Seriously, it’s like Jurassic Park in there! π¦ #BlueMountains
7. I’m filthy but @jeaninebribosia = immaculate.
8. The Ceremony of Giving. How does one gift to a minimalist?
9. Beverly the Doll and Shadow Beverly! πͺ
10. Yumi, Patti, Jeanine, Sarah and Jess. This was taken before any of us had gotten lost/exhausted/off-piste. How young and fresh-faced we were! π€£
Kemi asked what I hoped to get out of our POWER coaching session. I said, “Actually I just thought it would be a chance to hang out with a cool chick and have some LOLs. π” But then I sort of stopped down and realised that I’ve been feeling like I’m living my life at a sprint. And maybe I needed to do something about that.”
If you’re also having trouble sitting still, listen to my coaching session with Kemi in the @audible_au Original podcast ‘POWER Talks with @keminekvapil’ where Kemi and I work through the challenge of being present in your own life.
Listen now for free (no membership required) via the link in the bio. #women #podcasts #coaching #lifecoach #ad #power #powertalks
Hey hey I’ve got a food account @5minutefoodfix
Canberra weekend with the best people πππ»π½π€π
I could describe in detail every dish we ordered and ate over the 2 days but don’t ask me about the run, the run was *HARD* π« but like how they say with childbirth, you forget really quickly (a lie!!), the torturous pain in my legs and back while completing the half marathon seems like it happened maybe to someone else, someone weaker, someone less scrumptiously well-fed.ππΌ
Getting the band back together!! ππ¨βπ€π
HMU by @technicarla
Rock shapes by us.
THANKS @sydwritersfest IT’S BEEN REAL AND HILARIOUS
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#SWFGREATDEBATE
THANKS @sydwritersfest IT’S BEEN REAL AND HILARIOUS
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#SWFGREATDEBATE
βI feel like Iβm living my life at a sprintβ – @yumichild.
If youβre also having trouble sitting still, listen to Yumiβs coaching session with Kemi in the @audible_au Original podcast βPOWER Talks with @keminekvapilβ where she works through her challenge of being present in her life.
Listen now for free (no membership required) via the link in the bio.