Dondré Whitfield Instagram – I’ve gotten messages all week about this topic asking me how I felt about it and what my opinion was. So let’s do it.
Soooooooo many women were on fire about that interview. And I completely get why! I just sat back, watched and LISTENED. You may hear me speak a lot, and many of you acknowledge that I am a great communicator. Well in order to be that you have to be a great LISTENER first!!!! And therein lies the problem. Most people don’t LISTEN!!!!
Far too many women (not all, but too many) fall for men because of their ACCOMPLISHMENTS. So THOSE kind of women immediately think that a guy is valuable because of his accomplishments and the perception of what that means monetarily. Again, therein lies the problem. Because when they heard Jonathan make the comment about “not knowing who Simone was” they immediately got offended. Why? Because that’s how THEY value MEN. Gold medals, Grammy’s, world championships, etc.
Jonathan, like most men, doesn’t value his woman based on her accomplishments. He, like most men, values his woman based on compatibility.
So many women thought that he was diminishing her accomplishments because he didn’t value her because of them. But again, LISTEN!!!! He values her because of what she IS!!! Not what she DOES!!!!
And here’s what’s crazy, those same women are PISSED at Simone that she isn’t swayed by their energy. And if we’re patient, those same women will turn on her and start talking about her height, complexion and her hair!!!! QUICKLY!!!! Why? Because it was never about Simone in the first place. | Posted on 26/Dec/2023 21:59:13
