Dondré Whitfield Instagram – What she was really asking was “what happens when you’re dating a man who’s being more HUMAN than you?” Because being HARD is a LEARNED behavior!!!!! And you have to consciously unlearn or undo those behaviors.
Sisters, listen CAREFULLY—if a man doesn’t show up “soft” or “vulnerable” with YOU he will KILL YOU with his frustrations and angers. He’s making himself safe for you by not being his warrior self with you. And if you think he doesn’t HAVE a warrior self and he’s always “soft” and you can’t respect that, then ask yourself why you’re with him. Because that becomes more about you than him. And remember, if it IS about him then don’t be with him. So again, everything comes back to SELF…for men and women.
Merry Christmas.
🗣️ @trippfontane
📺 @tonightsconversation | Posted on 26/Dec/2023 01:52:24
