Many parents share with me that their children don’t respect them, they don’t listen to them. Well, now you know….some hard truths, look in the mirror,self reflect. You want your child’s attention,love & respect, start showing up for yourself and for them with a set of personal standards of behaviour that will garner respect because it is not demanded,it is earnt in the way you hold up yourself, your accountability everyday,your interactions and integrity. Be the role model your children need, instead of them seeking it on social media. – Jo x
It is outrageous and absolutely heartbreaking to hear that a child has died today of measles a deadly disease that had once been eradicated. This could of been prevented, yes prevented, that child could of had its best shot of life had the child of been immunized and protected by their parent. Have we not learnt anything from a global pandemic that took millions of lives, have we not learnt anything from history only to be repeating itself? Have we no duty to do the right thing by our children anymore? What will follow next Polio, Small pox? There is no evidence at all that the MMR vaccine causes Austism and yet people in the public eye people like Jenny McCarthy did a lot of damage years ago saying as such which by the way the Dr who stood by her with information was totally de – bunked and he lost his license. Do your research, yet people are still holding on to this mis informed tripe. This is about our duty our obligation as parents to do what’s right by our children no matter what religion you are, politics you stand by. We should all agree children’s lives matter, every single one and it is our duty as parents ,leaders & government to protect each and every one of them from fatal disease. That’s a hill I’m willing to die on personally & professionally one who helps millions of families worldwide and has witness the tragedy of such and nursed children with whooping cough and other disease like measles. Disease does not need a passport. Get your child immunized, do it now, protect your infant,your precious child so that you have the honor of watching them take their first steps,blow out their bday candles,ride a bike, sit with the Easter bunny. Too many of you missed those appointments during covid the high % is insane. Go now! before you think it will never happen to your family. I urge the government of the USA to stand up and do what’s right by our children – Jo xx #vaccineswork
In a world where millions of parents have to leave their little children in daycare for hours that simply leave families little consistent time at home to connect emotionally with their precious,let alone provide the immediate needs of their young, the childcare educational hubs need to change and reform their schedules to provide home hearted environments with child meal plans that accommodate a child’s 12 hour body clock on every level… currently it does not. A 4pm/ 4.30 ish meal would make a huge difference for a child that would be in bed for 7.30/8pm. Jo xx What are your thoughts on this situation?
🙌🏽 if you agree. Jo x
Easy now you know right? Also, never forget to be polite and respectful. Jo x
Your child will not get back this weekend, Children need to be present in their own experiences, that’s childhood, teen years, not watching endlessly produced content. Let’s not forget this families, have a good one! 🙂❤️
Less will always be more parents in avoiding the negative conflicts most ADHD children seek to light up their brains reward system, making them feel buzzed. Kids learn to push your buttons verbally and physically by being combative,leaning all over you to regulate themselves with physical pressure, this is why your boundaries must be upheld silently, don’t rise to the bait, be so reactive, no need to get loud and make a noise just remain centered and politely uphold. Less is more. Yes, non adhd children can do the same actions however the difference is a non adhd child needs you less to receive their own pleasure of curiosity and exploration and will be happy to simply go off into their own world even if it’s not something they are super hyperfocused on. Remember you learn a lot about yourself and your children when you can hold a space in your home to observe….cuppa in hand! Jo xx What’s your experience?
If you are a Performative Parent, you are producing your family, you are conciously aware you are ALL on camera. You are not present and authentically showing up the same way you would without camera’s. Your children energetically know the difference too, and will be impacted by you, their parent, yes energetically they do know, for all those parents who swear their children know no difference….trust me, they do! When you’ve watched me with a family over the years, they were always in the moment, present with me, their coach, that’s my job to accomplish pretty quickly and on the sidelines, trained extremely well by me there was my professional team, so that they could do their job AND so each families sole attention, focus and energy was between me them and successful transformation. 😊 So, you get to decide today, you want your children to be raised by a producer or a present authentic trusted parent? Jo x
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Parents. May i have your attention please. You’d think that sharing with your child your reasons, after empathetically listening to your child’s plea the reason why you are NOT consenting to them having a phone YET, or maybe it’s not being given social media YET, would be a one and done …In the same way your child may of asked to do many things over their childhood that you said NO to, that may of even endangered them in some way or another, or you felt as their parent/ guardian a very strong measured conviction that right now it was not okay. So, why are so many of you parents honestly struggling? I ask the question because it requires you to have to look at yourself and not your children. Your young teens are doing what teens do, ask, push boundaries,want more sooner. Why are many of you parents compromising your own values, undisciplined enough that it causes havoc daily in your homes? If you could take a moment to be vulnerable and courageous with your responses I’d love to hear why you feel you are honestly still struggling. No judgement here just wanting to understand with the raw truth you can provide in the hope I can truly help because you have all the power as it starts at home and yet the home is not peaceful. Thank you – Jo xx Artwork @mafe.artstudio
Most couples I coach wanting help with their children, as parents have always underlining issues with eachother personally and when those emotional needs are neglected there’s an unwillingness to work on the issues at hand, together, regarding the children. So remember a partner heard and empathized with, a partner who can hear accountability and witness action & willingness to grow is one who will support the commitment to get it right with your children together. Jo x Did this post just hit the truth spot?
Family values matter, so shift the conversation and energy to focus on that. Take nothing personal and focus on the children, especially if you’re a parent out there that may be one Co parenting with a rather difficult adult. Jo xx Jofrost.com
