It’s easy to overvalue chemistry, connection, and excitement in dating . . . and don’t get me wrong, these things are necessary to get something off the ground. But what if amidst our obsession with those things, we forget to look to see if the person in front of us could make a great partner?
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Homies, have you ever experienced this dating red flag before?
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It doesn’t matter how many wrong ones there are, my friends. Life can throw an army of them at you. You only need one☝❤
If you find yourself getting fixated on someone too quickly—trying to make them fit into a relationship based on who they could be—then watch this week’s video taken from my Live Retreat to figure out when someone is truly worthy of your investment. Full video on my Youtube channel or tap the link in my IG Profile.
You don’t need to come ready-made to a relationship; you need to come open, humble, and willing to do the work with someone who meets you where you are.
What do you think? Leave me a comment below ❤️
P.s. if you feel ready to find a real relationship with someone who truly values you I have a free training that will help you right now. Simply comment VALUE below and I will DM you the link to start watching.
You don’t need to come ready-made to a relationship; you need to come open, humble, and willing to do the work with someone who meets you where you are.
What do you think? Leave me a comment below ❤️
P.s. if you feel ready to find a real relationship with someone who truly values you I have a free training that will help you right now. Simply comment VALUE below and I will DM you the link to start watching.
What do you value most in a relationship? Tell me in the comments.
In this week’s new video, I’ve gathered 12 of my most important pieces of advice over the years on how to spot a toxic relationship, set standards, and ultimately find the love you’re looking for so you don’t end up in a relationship that damages your self-confidence.
Tell me what you think in the comments. Don’t forget, full video on my Youtube channel (link in bio)
Remember that you will find the right person sooner if you make a habit of saying goodbye to the wrong person quicker.
Leave me a YES if you agree ❤️
P.s. If you’re ready to say yes to the right person who truly values you, I have a free training that you will want to watch right now. Simply include the word VALUE in your comment below and I will send you a DM with the link to watch.
Remember that you will find the right person sooner if you make a habit of saying goodbye to the wrong person quicker.
Leave me a YES if you agree ❤️
P.s. If you’re ready to say yes to the right person who truly values you, I have a free training that you will want to watch right now. Simply include the word VALUE in your comment below and I will send you a DM with the link to watch.
The “no contact rule” is a 21-day period of intentional silence after someone has broken up with us.
Why is this so important? Because the other person needs to feel the magnitude of what they’ve done, and without a period of absence, you remove the emotional fallout of their actions.
Remember, this isn’t about playing games, but rather about allowing enough space to be created for the other person to think and course correct if the decision was born out of raw emotions or fear.
And if they don’t ever come back, by definition, the person who doesn’t choose you isn’t your person!
Intense emotional or physical pain can quickly lead to catastrophic thinking.
Phrases like: “I can’t do this,” “I’ll never get over this,” and “I’ll never meet someone like this again” are examples of catastrophic thinking.
It has us extrapolating today’s pain far into the future, with the assumption that it will never change in intensity.
We could say that the things that are causing us pain right now will one day go away. This is true in the case of a relationship ending, as we will be able to find another relationship and eventually move on from the pain of the last one.
But not all pain “goes away” with a change in circumstances. Some pain is chronic. And yet, even in the case of chronic pain, pain modulates. It changes. And how we relate to it changes. This is important to remember. Because the first truth—that pain hurts—can blind us to the second truth: that it changes.
If there is something in your life causing you pain today, remember this simple truth: that it will hurt, and it will change.
When we’re building something with someone, we typically go through these four stages.
Whether you’re with someone right now or hope to be in a relationship, pay close attention to which of these four things are present. In the long run, the absence of even one of these components will have most relationships crashing and burning . . .
If you found this helpful, comment ACCESS below to receive my free training on how to get out of casual relationship traps and find a committed relationship.
When we’re building something with someone, we typically go through these four stages.
Whether you’re with someone right now or hope to be in a relationship, pay close attention to which of these four things are present. In the long run, the absence of even one of these components will have most relationships crashing and burning . . .
If you found this helpful, comment ACCESS below to receive my free training on how to get out of casual relationship traps and find a committed relationship.
When we’re building something with someone, we typically go through these four stages.
Whether you’re with someone right now or hope to be in a relationship, pay close attention to which of these four things are present. In the long run, the absence of even one of these components will have most relationships crashing and burning . . .
If you found this helpful, comment ACCESS below to receive my free training on how to get out of casual relationship traps and find a committed relationship.
When we’re building something with someone, we typically go through these four stages.
Whether you’re with someone right now or hope to be in a relationship, pay close attention to which of these four things are present. In the long run, the absence of even one of these components will have most relationships crashing and burning . . .
If you found this helpful, comment ACCESS below to receive my free training on how to get out of casual relationship traps and find a committed relationship.
When we’re building something with someone, we typically go through these four stages.
Whether you’re with someone right now or hope to be in a relationship, pay close attention to which of these four things are present. In the long run, the absence of even one of these components will have most relationships crashing and burning . . .
If you found this helpful, comment ACCESS below to receive my free training on how to get out of casual relationship traps and find a committed relationship.
When we’re building something with someone, we typically go through these four stages.
Whether you’re with someone right now or hope to be in a relationship, pay close attention to which of these four things are present. In the long run, the absence of even one of these components will have most relationships crashing and burning . . .
If you found this helpful, comment ACCESS below to receive my free training on how to get out of casual relationship traps and find a committed relationship.
Remember: Just because someone is good company, does not mean that they can BUILD a good company.
Do you have a question for me about your love life? You can send it to me by commenting ASKMH below, and I’ll DM you a link to send me your question privately. I’m here for you friend.
Remember: Just because someone is good company, does not mean that they can BUILD a good company.
Do you have a question for me about your love life? You can send it to me by commenting ASKMH below, and I’ll DM you a link to send me your question privately. I’m here for you friend.
Leave a ❤️ in the comments if you agree, and share this with someone who needs it today.
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“How can I stop addictive thoughts about someone who’s wrong for me?”
When we really like someone but know there are signs of problems, we’ll often overvalue them for their charisma and charm . . . and set ourselves up for massive future heartbreak.
This week’s brand new video will help you break this pattern once and for all. Tap the link in my IG Profile or head over to matthewhussey.com/blog to start watching now and leave me a comment when you do.
Have you ever felt like you had to walk on eggshells in a relationship? Or had a partner who criticized you or made you feel bad when you were succeeding?
It’s often easier to see a toxic relationship from the outside than when you’re in the thick of it. Sometimes it can even be hard to tell the difference between something that can be worked on and a major red flag.
Tap the link in my IG Profile or head over to howtogettheguy.com/blog to learn my 12 most important pieces of advice on how to spot a toxic relationship and ultimately find the love you want. Don’t forget to leave me a comment when you do.
