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Heather Land Instagram - Please and thank you.
Heather Land Instagram - Just sayin… 
📷@meowkenxing
Heather Land Instagram - “What’d I come in here for…?”
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Heather Land Instagram - “…is enjoying coffee and a book on this rainy Saturday”
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Heather Land Instagram - These are my parents. Last night, my 71 year old mother earned her 3-year sobriety chip. I’m really proud of her. She has been addicted to prescription drugs for over three decades. It’s been a very long road for my entire family. In and out of rehab. We’ve got stories…

In 2020, I knew I could no longer keep living in the co-dependency so I chose to step away. I didn’t talk to my parents for over two years.  It was an extremely sad but necessary decision I made with a lot of support and therapy.  I even celebrated the happiest day of my life - my wedding - without my parents in attendance.  It was tough. I’m an only child.

Not everybody was supportive. 
I had people tell me I was unforgiving, dishonoring my mother and dishonoring God, but I knew in my heart that forgiveness did not mean sacrificing my own mental health, that God still loved me, and that I also mattered here. 
Fast forward a few years - after a lot of humility, hard work, ownership, and many necessary conversations, we were finally able to start a much healthier relationship in 2023. 
I asked her a few weeks ago, “Why are you so different this time?” She immediately said, “Because I finally quit living in shame.” She told me that the shame of her choices always kept her going back to drugs, unable to talk about it and unable to help other people.  Now, she’s sharing the good, the bad and the ugly if it will help somebody. 

If you’ve read this far I guess I would say the take-away is this: 
-You’re never too old to make a change. 
-Sometimes doing hard things and setting boundaries is necessary for everybody involved. Don’t let others make you feel guilty. 
-Shame is a thief. 
-Humility is everything. 
-I’m proud of my mom. 

If you’re an addict, I hope you feel hopeful. If you’re a co-dependent, I hope you can find strength to get therapy and set healthy boundaries. And if you’re giving advice to either, lead with love. Save the rest for a therapist. 💗

I hope this helps somebody today.  And I hope you’ll get to hear more from my mother as time goes on. I will be speaking at some churches and women’s events on this in the next few months. Comedy and trauma are such a great combination. 😏
Heather Land Instagram - These are my parents. Last night, my 71 year old mother earned her 3-year sobriety chip. I’m really proud of her. She has been addicted to prescription drugs for over three decades. It’s been a very long road for my entire family. In and out of rehab. We’ve got stories…

In 2020, I knew I could no longer keep living in the co-dependency so I chose to step away. I didn’t talk to my parents for over two years.  It was an extremely sad but necessary decision I made with a lot of support and therapy.  I even celebrated the happiest day of my life - my wedding - without my parents in attendance.  It was tough. I’m an only child.

Not everybody was supportive. 
I had people tell me I was unforgiving, dishonoring my mother and dishonoring God, but I knew in my heart that forgiveness did not mean sacrificing my own mental health, that God still loved me, and that I also mattered here. 
Fast forward a few years - after a lot of humility, hard work, ownership, and many necessary conversations, we were finally able to start a much healthier relationship in 2023. 
I asked her a few weeks ago, “Why are you so different this time?” She immediately said, “Because I finally quit living in shame.” She told me that the shame of her choices always kept her going back to drugs, unable to talk about it and unable to help other people.  Now, she’s sharing the good, the bad and the ugly if it will help somebody. 

If you’ve read this far I guess I would say the take-away is this: 
-You’re never too old to make a change. 
-Sometimes doing hard things and setting boundaries is necessary for everybody involved. Don’t let others make you feel guilty. 
-Shame is a thief. 
-Humility is everything. 
-I’m proud of my mom. 

If you’re an addict, I hope you feel hopeful. If you’re a co-dependent, I hope you can find strength to get therapy and set healthy boundaries. And if you’re giving advice to either, lead with love. Save the rest for a therapist. 💗

I hope this helps somebody today.  And I hope you’ll get to hear more from my mother as time goes on. I will be speaking at some churches and women’s events on this in the next few months. Comedy and trauma are such a great combination. 😏
Heather Land Instagram - These are my parents. Last night, my 71 year old mother earned her 3-year sobriety chip. I’m really proud of her. She has been addicted to prescription drugs for over three decades. It’s been a very long road for my entire family. In and out of rehab. We’ve got stories…

In 2020, I knew I could no longer keep living in the co-dependency so I chose to step away. I didn’t talk to my parents for over two years.  It was an extremely sad but necessary decision I made with a lot of support and therapy.  I even celebrated the happiest day of my life - my wedding - without my parents in attendance.  It was tough. I’m an only child.

Not everybody was supportive. 
I had people tell me I was unforgiving, dishonoring my mother and dishonoring God, but I knew in my heart that forgiveness did not mean sacrificing my own mental health, that God still loved me, and that I also mattered here. 
Fast forward a few years - after a lot of humility, hard work, ownership, and many necessary conversations, we were finally able to start a much healthier relationship in 2023. 
I asked her a few weeks ago, “Why are you so different this time?” She immediately said, “Because I finally quit living in shame.” She told me that the shame of her choices always kept her going back to drugs, unable to talk about it and unable to help other people.  Now, she’s sharing the good, the bad and the ugly if it will help somebody. 

If you’ve read this far I guess I would say the take-away is this: 
-You’re never too old to make a change. 
-Sometimes doing hard things and setting boundaries is necessary for everybody involved. Don’t let others make you feel guilty. 
-Shame is a thief. 
-Humility is everything. 
-I’m proud of my mom. 

If you’re an addict, I hope you feel hopeful. If you’re a co-dependent, I hope you can find strength to get therapy and set healthy boundaries. And if you’re giving advice to either, lead with love. Save the rest for a therapist. 💗

I hope this helps somebody today.  And I hope you’ll get to hear more from my mother as time goes on. I will be speaking at some churches and women’s events on this in the next few months. Comedy and trauma are such a great combination. 😏
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Heather Land Instagram - So much pressure!!
Heather Land Instagram - HAPPY NEW YEAR, EVERYBODY!
Praying for some beautiful new beginnings for us all.  Here’s to a hopeful 2024.🥂❤️
Heather Land Instagram - Merry Christmas from my crew to yours. I’m so grateful for you all. 
All the love this season. 🎄❤️. 
@christytheconnector @photowalknashville
Heather Land Instagram - Formerly: The ‘I Ain’t Doin It’ Lady
Currently: Burnt out… 
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MORE TO COME. 🤍 
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#womenslifecoach #lifecoachingforwomen #burnout #burntout #lifetransitions
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Heather Land Instagram - In 2018 I was in my fifth year of single-mom-life with two kids, starting a new career at 42 doing something I knew nothing about. 

This guy was the production manager on my first tour. He was young and single - never wanted to get married or have kids. So of course, we fell in love and got married on 10.10.2020. 

I just want to say to all of you who may be  discouraged and in a weird purgatory-phase of life, YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT GOOD THINGS MAY BE WAITING FOR YOU JUST AROUND THE CORNER. 😊❤️ 

I’m so glad that I have stayed open and said yes to whatever unexpected things God has brought my way. In the words of @drjoedispenza, “The unknown has never let me down.” 

And I’m especially grateful to be celebrating three of the best years of my life with the best man I know - my husband who didn’t want to be one. I’m glad he stayed open, too. 

Marrying him was the easiest, best decision I’ve ever made. He’s absolutely killing it at partnership and parenthood! (And I’m not just saying that because I woke up to roses and a scavenger hunt of sweet cards ending in tickets to see John Mayer tomorrow night.)

So, here’s to another year of lots of love and lots of laughter. 🥂HAPPY ANNIVERSARY, Stephen Mathew.❤️ 
You’re my hero.
Heather Land Instagram - In 2018 I was in my fifth year of single-mom-life with two kids, starting a new career at 42 doing something I knew nothing about. 

This guy was the production manager on my first tour. He was young and single - never wanted to get married or have kids. So of course, we fell in love and got married on 10.10.2020. 

I just want to say to all of you who may be  discouraged and in a weird purgatory-phase of life, YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT GOOD THINGS MAY BE WAITING FOR YOU JUST AROUND THE CORNER. 😊❤️ 

I’m so glad that I have stayed open and said yes to whatever unexpected things God has brought my way. In the words of @drjoedispenza, “The unknown has never let me down.” 

And I’m especially grateful to be celebrating three of the best years of my life with the best man I know - my husband who didn’t want to be one. I’m glad he stayed open, too. 

Marrying him was the easiest, best decision I’ve ever made. He’s absolutely killing it at partnership and parenthood! (And I’m not just saying that because I woke up to roses and a scavenger hunt of sweet cards ending in tickets to see John Mayer tomorrow night.)

So, here’s to another year of lots of love and lots of laughter. 🥂HAPPY ANNIVERSARY, Stephen Mathew.❤️ 
You’re my hero.
Heather Land Instagram - In 2018 I was in my fifth year of single-mom-life with two kids, starting a new career at 42 doing something I knew nothing about. 

This guy was the production manager on my first tour. He was young and single - never wanted to get married or have kids. So of course, we fell in love and got married on 10.10.2020. 

I just want to say to all of you who may be  discouraged and in a weird purgatory-phase of life, YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT GOOD THINGS MAY BE WAITING FOR YOU JUST AROUND THE CORNER. 😊❤️ 

I’m so glad that I have stayed open and said yes to whatever unexpected things God has brought my way. In the words of @drjoedispenza, “The unknown has never let me down.” 

And I’m especially grateful to be celebrating three of the best years of my life with the best man I know - my husband who didn’t want to be one. I’m glad he stayed open, too. 

Marrying him was the easiest, best decision I’ve ever made. He’s absolutely killing it at partnership and parenthood! (And I’m not just saying that because I woke up to roses and a scavenger hunt of sweet cards ending in tickets to see John Mayer tomorrow night.)

So, here’s to another year of lots of love and lots of laughter. 🥂HAPPY ANNIVERSARY, Stephen Mathew.❤️ 
You’re my hero.
Heather Land Instagram - In 2018 I was in my fifth year of single-mom-life with two kids, starting a new career at 42 doing something I knew nothing about. 

This guy was the production manager on my first tour. He was young and single - never wanted to get married or have kids. So of course, we fell in love and got married on 10.10.2020. 

I just want to say to all of you who may be  discouraged and in a weird purgatory-phase of life, YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT GOOD THINGS MAY BE WAITING FOR YOU JUST AROUND THE CORNER. 😊❤️ 

I’m so glad that I have stayed open and said yes to whatever unexpected things God has brought my way. In the words of @drjoedispenza, “The unknown has never let me down.” 

And I’m especially grateful to be celebrating three of the best years of my life with the best man I know - my husband who didn’t want to be one. I’m glad he stayed open, too. 

Marrying him was the easiest, best decision I’ve ever made. He’s absolutely killing it at partnership and parenthood! (And I’m not just saying that because I woke up to roses and a scavenger hunt of sweet cards ending in tickets to see John Mayer tomorrow night.)

So, here’s to another year of lots of love and lots of laughter. 🥂HAPPY ANNIVERSARY, Stephen Mathew.❤️ 
You’re my hero.
Heather Land Instagram - In 2018 I was in my fifth year of single-mom-life with two kids, starting a new career at 42 doing something I knew nothing about. 

This guy was the production manager on my first tour. He was young and single - never wanted to get married or have kids. So of course, we fell in love and got married on 10.10.2020. 

I just want to say to all of you who may be  discouraged and in a weird purgatory-phase of life, YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT GOOD THINGS MAY BE WAITING FOR YOU JUST AROUND THE CORNER. 😊❤️ 

I’m so glad that I have stayed open and said yes to whatever unexpected things God has brought my way. In the words of @drjoedispenza, “The unknown has never let me down.” 

And I’m especially grateful to be celebrating three of the best years of my life with the best man I know - my husband who didn’t want to be one. I’m glad he stayed open, too. 

Marrying him was the easiest, best decision I’ve ever made. He’s absolutely killing it at partnership and parenthood! (And I’m not just saying that because I woke up to roses and a scavenger hunt of sweet cards ending in tickets to see John Mayer tomorrow night.)

So, here’s to another year of lots of love and lots of laughter. 🥂HAPPY ANNIVERSARY, Stephen Mathew.❤️ 
You’re my hero.
Heather Land Instagram - In 2018 I was in my fifth year of single-mom-life with two kids, starting a new career at 42 doing something I knew nothing about. 

This guy was the production manager on my first tour. He was young and single - never wanted to get married or have kids. So of course, we fell in love and got married on 10.10.2020. 

I just want to say to all of you who may be  discouraged and in a weird purgatory-phase of life, YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT GOOD THINGS MAY BE WAITING FOR YOU JUST AROUND THE CORNER. 😊❤️ 

I’m so glad that I have stayed open and said yes to whatever unexpected things God has brought my way. In the words of @drjoedispenza, “The unknown has never let me down.” 

And I’m especially grateful to be celebrating three of the best years of my life with the best man I know - my husband who didn’t want to be one. I’m glad he stayed open, too. 

Marrying him was the easiest, best decision I’ve ever made. He’s absolutely killing it at partnership and parenthood! (And I’m not just saying that because I woke up to roses and a scavenger hunt of sweet cards ending in tickets to see John Mayer tomorrow night.)

So, here’s to another year of lots of love and lots of laughter. 🥂HAPPY ANNIVERSARY, Stephen Mathew.❤️ 
You’re my hero.
Heather Land Instagram - In 2018 I was in my fifth year of single-mom-life with two kids, starting a new career at 42 doing something I knew nothing about. 

This guy was the production manager on my first tour. He was young and single - never wanted to get married or have kids. So of course, we fell in love and got married on 10.10.2020. 

I just want to say to all of you who may be  discouraged and in a weird purgatory-phase of life, YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT GOOD THINGS MAY BE WAITING FOR YOU JUST AROUND THE CORNER. 😊❤️ 

I’m so glad that I have stayed open and said yes to whatever unexpected things God has brought my way. In the words of @drjoedispenza, “The unknown has never let me down.” 

And I’m especially grateful to be celebrating three of the best years of my life with the best man I know - my husband who didn’t want to be one. I’m glad he stayed open, too. 

Marrying him was the easiest, best decision I’ve ever made. He’s absolutely killing it at partnership and parenthood! (And I’m not just saying that because I woke up to roses and a scavenger hunt of sweet cards ending in tickets to see John Mayer tomorrow night.)

So, here’s to another year of lots of love and lots of laughter. 🥂HAPPY ANNIVERSARY, Stephen Mathew.❤️ 
You’re my hero.
Heather Land Instagram - In 2018 I was in my fifth year of single-mom-life with two kids, starting a new career at 42 doing something I knew nothing about. 

This guy was the production manager on my first tour. He was young and single - never wanted to get married or have kids. So of course, we fell in love and got married on 10.10.2020. 

I just want to say to all of you who may be  discouraged and in a weird purgatory-phase of life, YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT GOOD THINGS MAY BE WAITING FOR YOU JUST AROUND THE CORNER. 😊❤️ 

I’m so glad that I have stayed open and said yes to whatever unexpected things God has brought my way. In the words of @drjoedispenza, “The unknown has never let me down.” 

And I’m especially grateful to be celebrating three of the best years of my life with the best man I know - my husband who didn’t want to be one. I’m glad he stayed open, too. 

Marrying him was the easiest, best decision I’ve ever made. He’s absolutely killing it at partnership and parenthood! (And I’m not just saying that because I woke up to roses and a scavenger hunt of sweet cards ending in tickets to see John Mayer tomorrow night.)

So, here’s to another year of lots of love and lots of laughter. 🥂HAPPY ANNIVERSARY, Stephen Mathew.❤️ 
You’re my hero.
Heather Land Instagram - In 2018 I was in my fifth year of single-mom-life with two kids, starting a new career at 42 doing something I knew nothing about. 

This guy was the production manager on my first tour. He was young and single - never wanted to get married or have kids. So of course, we fell in love and got married on 10.10.2020. 

I just want to say to all of you who may be  discouraged and in a weird purgatory-phase of life, YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT GOOD THINGS MAY BE WAITING FOR YOU JUST AROUND THE CORNER. 😊❤️ 

I’m so glad that I have stayed open and said yes to whatever unexpected things God has brought my way. In the words of @drjoedispenza, “The unknown has never let me down.” 

And I’m especially grateful to be celebrating three of the best years of my life with the best man I know - my husband who didn’t want to be one. I’m glad he stayed open, too. 

Marrying him was the easiest, best decision I’ve ever made. He’s absolutely killing it at partnership and parenthood! (And I’m not just saying that because I woke up to roses and a scavenger hunt of sweet cards ending in tickets to see John Mayer tomorrow night.)

So, here’s to another year of lots of love and lots of laughter. 🥂HAPPY ANNIVERSARY, Stephen Mathew.❤️ 
You’re my hero.
Heather Land Instagram - In 2018 I was in my fifth year of single-mom-life with two kids, starting a new career at 42 doing something I knew nothing about. 

This guy was the production manager on my first tour. He was young and single - never wanted to get married or have kids. So of course, we fell in love and got married on 10.10.2020. 

I just want to say to all of you who may be  discouraged and in a weird purgatory-phase of life, YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT GOOD THINGS MAY BE WAITING FOR YOU JUST AROUND THE CORNER. 😊❤️ 

I’m so glad that I have stayed open and said yes to whatever unexpected things God has brought my way. In the words of @drjoedispenza, “The unknown has never let me down.” 

And I’m especially grateful to be celebrating three of the best years of my life with the best man I know - my husband who didn’t want to be one. I’m glad he stayed open, too. 

Marrying him was the easiest, best decision I’ve ever made. He’s absolutely killing it at partnership and parenthood! (And I’m not just saying that because I woke up to roses and a scavenger hunt of sweet cards ending in tickets to see John Mayer tomorrow night.)

So, here’s to another year of lots of love and lots of laughter. 🥂HAPPY ANNIVERSARY, Stephen Mathew.❤️ 
You’re my hero.
Heather Land Instagram - A note to girls who want a partner but don’t have one yet: 

Long ago in the year 2018, in my 4th year of single-mom life, I had resigned myself to the fact that I had been through a lot and that I, in fact, WAS a lot so I would probably be “alone”forever. And that was actually working out great for me. I rather enjoyed it. I loved myself and my time and my way. I was as stable as a person with my brain and history could be. I was happy. 
And all those things I was looking for as a young girl that I had written on paper in youth group had not really worked out for me anyway. 

But one day, this really handsome, young millennial guy who never wanted to be married or have children came my way so of course, I was interested. 
He was 29. I was 41. YIKES! (Could’ve sworn he was older.) We had different backgrounds and cultures. 
I had trauma. He didn’t. 
He was smart. I was just funny. 
He knew how to pronounce gnocchi. I thought I did but I didn’t. 

On paper this was FOR SURE a no-go, but as previously stated, paper hadn’t really worked out for me so….

Here’s what I’m saying:
I’m really glad I didn’t put pen to paper on this one. I’m really glad I went with my heart and my gut and didn’t talk myself out of the greatest thing that’s ever happened to me. I’m glad I took a risk that is paying off in spades. And I’m especially glad that the best man I’ve ever known decided that a wife and a couple of teenagers was, in fact, for him after all. 

I KNEW IT, GIRLS!! I knew this was out there. I knew that being cherished and adored everyday wasn’t just a pipe dream. I knew I deserved this. 

And so do you. You deserve it, too. Don’t settle. If you are a gal wanting a partner, wait for one who thinks Valentine’s Day is the dumbest thing on living earth but writes you the sweetest cards and gives you flowers anyway (& your daughter, too). But most importantly, hold out for one who doesn’t need a “holiday” to make you feel like you’re the greatest gift he’s ever been given. This one’s a keeper. Until then, be the love of your own life. Nobody can love you better than you love yourself, so I’m learning. (But my guy is a very close second). 🩷
Heather Land Instagram - A note to girls who want a partner but don’t have one yet: 

Long ago in the year 2018, in my 4th year of single-mom life, I had resigned myself to the fact that I had been through a lot and that I, in fact, WAS a lot so I would probably be “alone”forever. And that was actually working out great for me. I rather enjoyed it. I loved myself and my time and my way. I was as stable as a person with my brain and history could be. I was happy. 
And all those things I was looking for as a young girl that I had written on paper in youth group had not really worked out for me anyway. 

But one day, this really handsome, young millennial guy who never wanted to be married or have children came my way so of course, I was interested. 
He was 29. I was 41. YIKES! (Could’ve sworn he was older.) We had different backgrounds and cultures. 
I had trauma. He didn’t. 
He was smart. I was just funny. 
He knew how to pronounce gnocchi. I thought I did but I didn’t. 

On paper this was FOR SURE a no-go, but as previously stated, paper hadn’t really worked out for me so….

Here’s what I’m saying:
I’m really glad I didn’t put pen to paper on this one. I’m really glad I went with my heart and my gut and didn’t talk myself out of the greatest thing that’s ever happened to me. I’m glad I took a risk that is paying off in spades. And I’m especially glad that the best man I’ve ever known decided that a wife and a couple of teenagers was, in fact, for him after all. 

I KNEW IT, GIRLS!! I knew this was out there. I knew that being cherished and adored everyday wasn’t just a pipe dream. I knew I deserved this. 

And so do you. You deserve it, too. Don’t settle. If you are a gal wanting a partner, wait for one who thinks Valentine’s Day is the dumbest thing on living earth but writes you the sweetest cards and gives you flowers anyway (& your daughter, too). But most importantly, hold out for one who doesn’t need a “holiday” to make you feel like you’re the greatest gift he’s ever been given. This one’s a keeper. Until then, be the love of your own life. Nobody can love you better than you love yourself, so I’m learning. (But my guy is a very close second). 🩷
Heather Land Instagram - A note to girls who want a partner but don’t have one yet: 

Long ago in the year 2018, in my 4th year of single-mom life, I had resigned myself to the fact that I had been through a lot and that I, in fact, WAS a lot so I would probably be “alone”forever. And that was actually working out great for me. I rather enjoyed it. I loved myself and my time and my way. I was as stable as a person with my brain and history could be. I was happy. 
And all those things I was looking for as a young girl that I had written on paper in youth group had not really worked out for me anyway. 

But one day, this really handsome, young millennial guy who never wanted to be married or have children came my way so of course, I was interested. 
He was 29. I was 41. YIKES! (Could’ve sworn he was older.) We had different backgrounds and cultures. 
I had trauma. He didn’t. 
He was smart. I was just funny. 
He knew how to pronounce gnocchi. I thought I did but I didn’t. 

On paper this was FOR SURE a no-go, but as previously stated, paper hadn’t really worked out for me so….

Here’s what I’m saying:
I’m really glad I didn’t put pen to paper on this one. I’m really glad I went with my heart and my gut and didn’t talk myself out of the greatest thing that’s ever happened to me. I’m glad I took a risk that is paying off in spades. And I’m especially glad that the best man I’ve ever known decided that a wife and a couple of teenagers was, in fact, for him after all. 

I KNEW IT, GIRLS!! I knew this was out there. I knew that being cherished and adored everyday wasn’t just a pipe dream. I knew I deserved this. 

And so do you. You deserve it, too. Don’t settle. If you are a gal wanting a partner, wait for one who thinks Valentine’s Day is the dumbest thing on living earth but writes you the sweetest cards and gives you flowers anyway (& your daughter, too). But most importantly, hold out for one who doesn’t need a “holiday” to make you feel like you’re the greatest gift he’s ever been given. This one’s a keeper. Until then, be the love of your own life. Nobody can love you better than you love yourself, so I’m learning. (But my guy is a very close second). 🩷
Heather Land Instagram - A note to girls who want a partner but don’t have one yet: 

Long ago in the year 2018, in my 4th year of single-mom life, I had resigned myself to the fact that I had been through a lot and that I, in fact, WAS a lot so I would probably be “alone”forever. And that was actually working out great for me. I rather enjoyed it. I loved myself and my time and my way. I was as stable as a person with my brain and history could be. I was happy. 
And all those things I was looking for as a young girl that I had written on paper in youth group had not really worked out for me anyway. 

But one day, this really handsome, young millennial guy who never wanted to be married or have children came my way so of course, I was interested. 
He was 29. I was 41. YIKES! (Could’ve sworn he was older.) We had different backgrounds and cultures. 
I had trauma. He didn’t. 
He was smart. I was just funny. 
He knew how to pronounce gnocchi. I thought I did but I didn’t. 

On paper this was FOR SURE a no-go, but as previously stated, paper hadn’t really worked out for me so….

Here’s what I’m saying:
I’m really glad I didn’t put pen to paper on this one. I’m really glad I went with my heart and my gut and didn’t talk myself out of the greatest thing that’s ever happened to me. I’m glad I took a risk that is paying off in spades. And I’m especially glad that the best man I’ve ever known decided that a wife and a couple of teenagers was, in fact, for him after all. 

I KNEW IT, GIRLS!! I knew this was out there. I knew that being cherished and adored everyday wasn’t just a pipe dream. I knew I deserved this. 

And so do you. You deserve it, too. Don’t settle. If you are a gal wanting a partner, wait for one who thinks Valentine’s Day is the dumbest thing on living earth but writes you the sweetest cards and gives you flowers anyway (& your daughter, too). But most importantly, hold out for one who doesn’t need a “holiday” to make you feel like you’re the greatest gift he’s ever been given. This one’s a keeper. Until then, be the love of your own life. Nobody can love you better than you love yourself, so I’m learning. (But my guy is a very close second). 🩷
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Heather Land - 50.7K Likes - “…is enjoying coffee and a book on this rainy Saturday”

50.7K Likes – Heather Land Instagram

Caption : “…is enjoying coffee and a book on this rainy Saturday”
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Heather Land - 41.8K Likes - Don’t forget the Calabrian chilis

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Caption : Don’t forget the Calabrian chilis
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Heather Land - 20.4K Likes - Truth

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Heather Land - 18.6K Likes - Where can I purchase?

18.6K Likes – Heather Land Instagram

Caption : Where can I purchase?
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Heather Land - 16.8K Likes - These are my parents. Last night, my 71 year old mother earned her 3-year sobriety chip. I’m really proud of her. She has been addicted to prescription drugs for over three decades. It’s been a very long road for my entire family. In and out of rehab. We’ve got stories…

In 2020, I knew I could no longer keep living in the co-dependency so I chose to step away. I didn’t talk to my parents for over two years.  It was an extremely sad but necessary decision I made with a lot of support and therapy.  I even celebrated the happiest day of my life - my wedding - without my parents in attendance.  It was tough. I’m an only child.

Not everybody was supportive. 
I had people tell me I was unforgiving, dishonoring my mother and dishonoring God, but I knew in my heart that forgiveness did not mean sacrificing my own mental health, that God still loved me, and that I also mattered here. 
Fast forward a few years - after a lot of humility, hard work, ownership, and many necessary conversations, we were finally able to start a much healthier relationship in 2023. 
I asked her a few weeks ago, “Why are you so different this time?” She immediately said, “Because I finally quit living in shame.” She told me that the shame of her choices always kept her going back to drugs, unable to talk about it and unable to help other people.  Now, she’s sharing the good, the bad and the ugly if it will help somebody. 

If you’ve read this far I guess I would say the take-away is this: 
-You’re never too old to make a change. 
-Sometimes doing hard things and setting boundaries is necessary for everybody involved. Don’t let others make you feel guilty. 
-Shame is a thief. 
-Humility is everything. 
-I’m proud of my mom. 

If you’re an addict, I hope you feel hopeful. If you’re a co-dependent, I hope you can find strength to get therapy and set healthy boundaries. And if you’re giving advice to either, lead with love. Save the rest for a therapist. 💗

I hope this helps somebody today.  And I hope you’ll get to hear more from my mother as time goes on. I will be speaking at some churches and women’s events on this in the next few months. Comedy and trauma are such a great combination. 😏

16.8K Likes – Heather Land Instagram

Caption : These are my parents. Last night, my 71 year old mother earned her 3-year sobriety chip. I’m really proud of her. She has been addicted to prescription drugs for over three decades. It’s been a very long road for my entire family. In and out of rehab. We’ve got stories… In 2020, I knew I could no longer keep living in the co-dependency so I chose to step away. I didn’t talk to my parents for over two years. It was an extremely sad but necessary decision I made with a lot of support and therapy. I even celebrated the happiest day of my life – my wedding – without my parents in attendance. It was tough. I’m an only child. Not everybody was supportive. I had people tell me I was unforgiving, dishonoring my mother and dishonoring God, but I knew in my heart that forgiveness did not mean sacrificing my own mental health, that God still loved me, and that I also mattered here. Fast forward a few years – after a lot of humility, hard work, ownership, and many necessary conversations, we were finally able to start a much healthier relationship in 2023. I asked her a few weeks ago, “Why are you so different this time?” She immediately said, “Because I finally quit living in shame.” She told me that the shame of her choices always kept her going back to drugs, unable to talk about it and unable to help other people. Now, she’s sharing the good, the bad and the ugly if it will help somebody. If you’ve read this far I guess I would say the take-away is this: -You’re never too old to make a change. -Sometimes doing hard things and setting boundaries is necessary for everybody involved. Don’t let others make you feel guilty. -Shame is a thief. -Humility is everything. -I’m proud of my mom. If you’re an addict, I hope you feel hopeful. If you’re a co-dependent, I hope you can find strength to get therapy and set healthy boundaries. And if you’re giving advice to either, lead with love. Save the rest for a therapist. 💗 I hope this helps somebody today. And I hope you’ll get to hear more from my mother as time goes on. I will be speaking at some churches and women’s events on this in the next few months. Comedy and trauma are such a great combination. 😏
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Heather Land - 16.8K Likes - These are my parents. Last night, my 71 year old mother earned her 3-year sobriety chip. I’m really proud of her. She has been addicted to prescription drugs for over three decades. It’s been a very long road for my entire family. In and out of rehab. We’ve got stories…

In 2020, I knew I could no longer keep living in the co-dependency so I chose to step away. I didn’t talk to my parents for over two years.  It was an extremely sad but necessary decision I made with a lot of support and therapy.  I even celebrated the happiest day of my life - my wedding - without my parents in attendance.  It was tough. I’m an only child.

Not everybody was supportive. 
I had people tell me I was unforgiving, dishonoring my mother and dishonoring God, but I knew in my heart that forgiveness did not mean sacrificing my own mental health, that God still loved me, and that I also mattered here. 
Fast forward a few years - after a lot of humility, hard work, ownership, and many necessary conversations, we were finally able to start a much healthier relationship in 2023. 
I asked her a few weeks ago, “Why are you so different this time?” She immediately said, “Because I finally quit living in shame.” She told me that the shame of her choices always kept her going back to drugs, unable to talk about it and unable to help other people.  Now, she’s sharing the good, the bad and the ugly if it will help somebody. 

If you’ve read this far I guess I would say the take-away is this: 
-You’re never too old to make a change. 
-Sometimes doing hard things and setting boundaries is necessary for everybody involved. Don’t let others make you feel guilty. 
-Shame is a thief. 
-Humility is everything. 
-I’m proud of my mom. 

If you’re an addict, I hope you feel hopeful. If you’re a co-dependent, I hope you can find strength to get therapy and set healthy boundaries. And if you’re giving advice to either, lead with love. Save the rest for a therapist. 💗

I hope this helps somebody today.  And I hope you’ll get to hear more from my mother as time goes on. I will be speaking at some churches and women’s events on this in the next few months. Comedy and trauma are such a great combination. 😏

16.8K Likes – Heather Land Instagram

Caption : These are my parents. Last night, my 71 year old mother earned her 3-year sobriety chip. I’m really proud of her. She has been addicted to prescription drugs for over three decades. It’s been a very long road for my entire family. In and out of rehab. We’ve got stories… In 2020, I knew I could no longer keep living in the co-dependency so I chose to step away. I didn’t talk to my parents for over two years. It was an extremely sad but necessary decision I made with a lot of support and therapy. I even celebrated the happiest day of my life – my wedding – without my parents in attendance. It was tough. I’m an only child. Not everybody was supportive. I had people tell me I was unforgiving, dishonoring my mother and dishonoring God, but I knew in my heart that forgiveness did not mean sacrificing my own mental health, that God still loved me, and that I also mattered here. Fast forward a few years – after a lot of humility, hard work, ownership, and many necessary conversations, we were finally able to start a much healthier relationship in 2023. I asked her a few weeks ago, “Why are you so different this time?” She immediately said, “Because I finally quit living in shame.” She told me that the shame of her choices always kept her going back to drugs, unable to talk about it and unable to help other people. Now, she’s sharing the good, the bad and the ugly if it will help somebody. If you’ve read this far I guess I would say the take-away is this: -You’re never too old to make a change. -Sometimes doing hard things and setting boundaries is necessary for everybody involved. Don’t let others make you feel guilty. -Shame is a thief. -Humility is everything. -I’m proud of my mom. If you’re an addict, I hope you feel hopeful. If you’re a co-dependent, I hope you can find strength to get therapy and set healthy boundaries. And if you’re giving advice to either, lead with love. Save the rest for a therapist. 💗 I hope this helps somebody today. And I hope you’ll get to hear more from my mother as time goes on. I will be speaking at some churches and women’s events on this in the next few months. Comedy and trauma are such a great combination. 😏
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Heather Land - 16.8K Likes - These are my parents. Last night, my 71 year old mother earned her 3-year sobriety chip. I’m really proud of her. She has been addicted to prescription drugs for over three decades. It’s been a very long road for my entire family. In and out of rehab. We’ve got stories…

In 2020, I knew I could no longer keep living in the co-dependency so I chose to step away. I didn’t talk to my parents for over two years.  It was an extremely sad but necessary decision I made with a lot of support and therapy.  I even celebrated the happiest day of my life - my wedding - without my parents in attendance.  It was tough. I’m an only child.

Not everybody was supportive. 
I had people tell me I was unforgiving, dishonoring my mother and dishonoring God, but I knew in my heart that forgiveness did not mean sacrificing my own mental health, that God still loved me, and that I also mattered here. 
Fast forward a few years - after a lot of humility, hard work, ownership, and many necessary conversations, we were finally able to start a much healthier relationship in 2023. 
I asked her a few weeks ago, “Why are you so different this time?” She immediately said, “Because I finally quit living in shame.” She told me that the shame of her choices always kept her going back to drugs, unable to talk about it and unable to help other people.  Now, she’s sharing the good, the bad and the ugly if it will help somebody. 

If you’ve read this far I guess I would say the take-away is this: 
-You’re never too old to make a change. 
-Sometimes doing hard things and setting boundaries is necessary for everybody involved. Don’t let others make you feel guilty. 
-Shame is a thief. 
-Humility is everything. 
-I’m proud of my mom. 

If you’re an addict, I hope you feel hopeful. If you’re a co-dependent, I hope you can find strength to get therapy and set healthy boundaries. And if you’re giving advice to either, lead with love. Save the rest for a therapist. 💗

I hope this helps somebody today.  And I hope you’ll get to hear more from my mother as time goes on. I will be speaking at some churches and women’s events on this in the next few months. Comedy and trauma are such a great combination. 😏

16.8K Likes – Heather Land Instagram

Caption : These are my parents. Last night, my 71 year old mother earned her 3-year sobriety chip. I’m really proud of her. She has been addicted to prescription drugs for over three decades. It’s been a very long road for my entire family. In and out of rehab. We’ve got stories… In 2020, I knew I could no longer keep living in the co-dependency so I chose to step away. I didn’t talk to my parents for over two years. It was an extremely sad but necessary decision I made with a lot of support and therapy. I even celebrated the happiest day of my life – my wedding – without my parents in attendance. It was tough. I’m an only child. Not everybody was supportive. I had people tell me I was unforgiving, dishonoring my mother and dishonoring God, but I knew in my heart that forgiveness did not mean sacrificing my own mental health, that God still loved me, and that I also mattered here. Fast forward a few years – after a lot of humility, hard work, ownership, and many necessary conversations, we were finally able to start a much healthier relationship in 2023. I asked her a few weeks ago, “Why are you so different this time?” She immediately said, “Because I finally quit living in shame.” She told me that the shame of her choices always kept her going back to drugs, unable to talk about it and unable to help other people. Now, she’s sharing the good, the bad and the ugly if it will help somebody. If you’ve read this far I guess I would say the take-away is this: -You’re never too old to make a change. -Sometimes doing hard things and setting boundaries is necessary for everybody involved. Don’t let others make you feel guilty. -Shame is a thief. -Humility is everything. -I’m proud of my mom. If you’re an addict, I hope you feel hopeful. If you’re a co-dependent, I hope you can find strength to get therapy and set healthy boundaries. And if you’re giving advice to either, lead with love. Save the rest for a therapist. 💗 I hope this helps somebody today. And I hope you’ll get to hear more from my mother as time goes on. I will be speaking at some churches and women’s events on this in the next few months. Comedy and trauma are such a great combination. 😏
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Heather Land - 15.6K Likes -

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Heather Land - 10.8K Likes - So much pressure!!

10.8K Likes – Heather Land Instagram

Caption : So much pressure!!
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Heather Land - 8.8K Likes - HAPPY NEW YEAR, EVERYBODY!
Praying for some beautiful new beginnings for us all.  Here’s to a hopeful 2024.🥂❤️

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Caption : HAPPY NEW YEAR, EVERYBODY! Praying for some beautiful new beginnings for us all. Here’s to a hopeful 2024.🥂❤️
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Heather Land - 7.1K Likes - Merry Christmas from my crew to yours. I’m so grateful for you all. 
All the love this season. 🎄❤️. 
@christytheconnector @photowalknashville

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Caption : Merry Christmas from my crew to yours. I’m so grateful for you all. All the love this season. 🎄❤️. @christytheconnector @photowalknashville
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Heather Land - 6.1K Likes - Formerly: The ‘I Ain’t Doin It’ Lady
Currently: Burnt out… 
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MORE TO COME. 🤍 
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#womenslifecoach #lifecoachingforwomen #burnout #burntout #lifetransitions

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Caption : Formerly: The ‘I Ain’t Doin It’ Lady Currently: Burnt out… – MORE TO COME. 🤍 – #womenslifecoach #lifecoachingforwomen #burnout #burntout #lifetransitions
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Heather Land - 5.9K Likes -

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Heather Land - 5.7K Likes - In 2018 I was in my fifth year of single-mom-life with two kids, starting a new career at 42 doing something I knew nothing about. 

This guy was the production manager on my first tour. He was young and single - never wanted to get married or have kids. So of course, we fell in love and got married on 10.10.2020. 

I just want to say to all of you who may be  discouraged and in a weird purgatory-phase of life, YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT GOOD THINGS MAY BE WAITING FOR YOU JUST AROUND THE CORNER. 😊❤️ 

I’m so glad that I have stayed open and said yes to whatever unexpected things God has brought my way. In the words of @drjoedispenza, “The unknown has never let me down.” 

And I’m especially grateful to be celebrating three of the best years of my life with the best man I know - my husband who didn’t want to be one. I’m glad he stayed open, too. 

Marrying him was the easiest, best decision I’ve ever made. He’s absolutely killing it at partnership and parenthood! (And I’m not just saying that because I woke up to roses and a scavenger hunt of sweet cards ending in tickets to see John Mayer tomorrow night.)

So, here’s to another year of lots of love and lots of laughter. 🥂HAPPY ANNIVERSARY, Stephen Mathew.❤️ 
You’re my hero.

5.7K Likes – Heather Land Instagram

Caption : In 2018 I was in my fifth year of single-mom-life with two kids, starting a new career at 42 doing something I knew nothing about. This guy was the production manager on my first tour. He was young and single – never wanted to get married or have kids. So of course, we fell in love and got married on 10.10.2020. I just want to say to all of you who may be discouraged and in a weird purgatory-phase of life, YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT GOOD THINGS MAY BE WAITING FOR YOU JUST AROUND THE CORNER. 😊❤️ I’m so glad that I have stayed open and said yes to whatever unexpected things God has brought my way. In the words of @drjoedispenza, “The unknown has never let me down.” And I’m especially grateful to be celebrating three of the best years of my life with the best man I know – my husband who didn’t want to be one. I’m glad he stayed open, too. Marrying him was the easiest, best decision I’ve ever made. He’s absolutely killing it at partnership and parenthood! (And I’m not just saying that because I woke up to roses and a scavenger hunt of sweet cards ending in tickets to see John Mayer tomorrow night.) So, here’s to another year of lots of love and lots of laughter. 🥂HAPPY ANNIVERSARY, Stephen Mathew.❤️ You’re my hero.
Likes : 5727
Heather Land - 5.7K Likes - In 2018 I was in my fifth year of single-mom-life with two kids, starting a new career at 42 doing something I knew nothing about. 

This guy was the production manager on my first tour. He was young and single - never wanted to get married or have kids. So of course, we fell in love and got married on 10.10.2020. 

I just want to say to all of you who may be  discouraged and in a weird purgatory-phase of life, YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT GOOD THINGS MAY BE WAITING FOR YOU JUST AROUND THE CORNER. 😊❤️ 

I’m so glad that I have stayed open and said yes to whatever unexpected things God has brought my way. In the words of @drjoedispenza, “The unknown has never let me down.” 

And I’m especially grateful to be celebrating three of the best years of my life with the best man I know - my husband who didn’t want to be one. I’m glad he stayed open, too. 

Marrying him was the easiest, best decision I’ve ever made. He’s absolutely killing it at partnership and parenthood! (And I’m not just saying that because I woke up to roses and a scavenger hunt of sweet cards ending in tickets to see John Mayer tomorrow night.)

So, here’s to another year of lots of love and lots of laughter. 🥂HAPPY ANNIVERSARY, Stephen Mathew.❤️ 
You’re my hero.

5.7K Likes – Heather Land Instagram

Caption : In 2018 I was in my fifth year of single-mom-life with two kids, starting a new career at 42 doing something I knew nothing about. This guy was the production manager on my first tour. He was young and single – never wanted to get married or have kids. So of course, we fell in love and got married on 10.10.2020. I just want to say to all of you who may be discouraged and in a weird purgatory-phase of life, YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT GOOD THINGS MAY BE WAITING FOR YOU JUST AROUND THE CORNER. 😊❤️ I’m so glad that I have stayed open and said yes to whatever unexpected things God has brought my way. In the words of @drjoedispenza, “The unknown has never let me down.” And I’m especially grateful to be celebrating three of the best years of my life with the best man I know – my husband who didn’t want to be one. I’m glad he stayed open, too. Marrying him was the easiest, best decision I’ve ever made. He’s absolutely killing it at partnership and parenthood! (And I’m not just saying that because I woke up to roses and a scavenger hunt of sweet cards ending in tickets to see John Mayer tomorrow night.) So, here’s to another year of lots of love and lots of laughter. 🥂HAPPY ANNIVERSARY, Stephen Mathew.❤️ You’re my hero.
Likes : 5727
Heather Land - 5.7K Likes - In 2018 I was in my fifth year of single-mom-life with two kids, starting a new career at 42 doing something I knew nothing about. 

This guy was the production manager on my first tour. He was young and single - never wanted to get married or have kids. So of course, we fell in love and got married on 10.10.2020. 

I just want to say to all of you who may be  discouraged and in a weird purgatory-phase of life, YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT GOOD THINGS MAY BE WAITING FOR YOU JUST AROUND THE CORNER. 😊❤️ 

I’m so glad that I have stayed open and said yes to whatever unexpected things God has brought my way. In the words of @drjoedispenza, “The unknown has never let me down.” 

And I’m especially grateful to be celebrating three of the best years of my life with the best man I know - my husband who didn’t want to be one. I’m glad he stayed open, too. 

Marrying him was the easiest, best decision I’ve ever made. He’s absolutely killing it at partnership and parenthood! (And I’m not just saying that because I woke up to roses and a scavenger hunt of sweet cards ending in tickets to see John Mayer tomorrow night.)

So, here’s to another year of lots of love and lots of laughter. 🥂HAPPY ANNIVERSARY, Stephen Mathew.❤️ 
You’re my hero.

5.7K Likes – Heather Land Instagram

Caption : In 2018 I was in my fifth year of single-mom-life with two kids, starting a new career at 42 doing something I knew nothing about. This guy was the production manager on my first tour. He was young and single – never wanted to get married or have kids. So of course, we fell in love and got married on 10.10.2020. I just want to say to all of you who may be discouraged and in a weird purgatory-phase of life, YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT GOOD THINGS MAY BE WAITING FOR YOU JUST AROUND THE CORNER. 😊❤️ I’m so glad that I have stayed open and said yes to whatever unexpected things God has brought my way. In the words of @drjoedispenza, “The unknown has never let me down.” And I’m especially grateful to be celebrating three of the best years of my life with the best man I know – my husband who didn’t want to be one. I’m glad he stayed open, too. Marrying him was the easiest, best decision I’ve ever made. He’s absolutely killing it at partnership and parenthood! (And I’m not just saying that because I woke up to roses and a scavenger hunt of sweet cards ending in tickets to see John Mayer tomorrow night.) So, here’s to another year of lots of love and lots of laughter. 🥂HAPPY ANNIVERSARY, Stephen Mathew.❤️ You’re my hero.
Likes : 5727
Heather Land - 5.7K Likes - In 2018 I was in my fifth year of single-mom-life with two kids, starting a new career at 42 doing something I knew nothing about. 

This guy was the production manager on my first tour. He was young and single - never wanted to get married or have kids. So of course, we fell in love and got married on 10.10.2020. 

I just want to say to all of you who may be  discouraged and in a weird purgatory-phase of life, YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT GOOD THINGS MAY BE WAITING FOR YOU JUST AROUND THE CORNER. 😊❤️ 

I’m so glad that I have stayed open and said yes to whatever unexpected things God has brought my way. In the words of @drjoedispenza, “The unknown has never let me down.” 

And I’m especially grateful to be celebrating three of the best years of my life with the best man I know - my husband who didn’t want to be one. I’m glad he stayed open, too. 

Marrying him was the easiest, best decision I’ve ever made. He’s absolutely killing it at partnership and parenthood! (And I’m not just saying that because I woke up to roses and a scavenger hunt of sweet cards ending in tickets to see John Mayer tomorrow night.)

So, here’s to another year of lots of love and lots of laughter. 🥂HAPPY ANNIVERSARY, Stephen Mathew.❤️ 
You’re my hero.

5.7K Likes – Heather Land Instagram

Caption : In 2018 I was in my fifth year of single-mom-life with two kids, starting a new career at 42 doing something I knew nothing about. This guy was the production manager on my first tour. He was young and single – never wanted to get married or have kids. So of course, we fell in love and got married on 10.10.2020. I just want to say to all of you who may be discouraged and in a weird purgatory-phase of life, YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT GOOD THINGS MAY BE WAITING FOR YOU JUST AROUND THE CORNER. 😊❤️ I’m so glad that I have stayed open and said yes to whatever unexpected things God has brought my way. In the words of @drjoedispenza, “The unknown has never let me down.” And I’m especially grateful to be celebrating three of the best years of my life with the best man I know – my husband who didn’t want to be one. I’m glad he stayed open, too. Marrying him was the easiest, best decision I’ve ever made. He’s absolutely killing it at partnership and parenthood! (And I’m not just saying that because I woke up to roses and a scavenger hunt of sweet cards ending in tickets to see John Mayer tomorrow night.) So, here’s to another year of lots of love and lots of laughter. 🥂HAPPY ANNIVERSARY, Stephen Mathew.❤️ You’re my hero.
Likes : 5727
Heather Land - 5.7K Likes - In 2018 I was in my fifth year of single-mom-life with two kids, starting a new career at 42 doing something I knew nothing about. 

This guy was the production manager on my first tour. He was young and single - never wanted to get married or have kids. So of course, we fell in love and got married on 10.10.2020. 

I just want to say to all of you who may be  discouraged and in a weird purgatory-phase of life, YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT GOOD THINGS MAY BE WAITING FOR YOU JUST AROUND THE CORNER. 😊❤️ 

I’m so glad that I have stayed open and said yes to whatever unexpected things God has brought my way. In the words of @drjoedispenza, “The unknown has never let me down.” 

And I’m especially grateful to be celebrating three of the best years of my life with the best man I know - my husband who didn’t want to be one. I’m glad he stayed open, too. 

Marrying him was the easiest, best decision I’ve ever made. He’s absolutely killing it at partnership and parenthood! (And I’m not just saying that because I woke up to roses and a scavenger hunt of sweet cards ending in tickets to see John Mayer tomorrow night.)

So, here’s to another year of lots of love and lots of laughter. 🥂HAPPY ANNIVERSARY, Stephen Mathew.❤️ 
You’re my hero.

5.7K Likes – Heather Land Instagram

Caption : In 2018 I was in my fifth year of single-mom-life with two kids, starting a new career at 42 doing something I knew nothing about. This guy was the production manager on my first tour. He was young and single – never wanted to get married or have kids. So of course, we fell in love and got married on 10.10.2020. I just want to say to all of you who may be discouraged and in a weird purgatory-phase of life, YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT GOOD THINGS MAY BE WAITING FOR YOU JUST AROUND THE CORNER. 😊❤️ I’m so glad that I have stayed open and said yes to whatever unexpected things God has brought my way. In the words of @drjoedispenza, “The unknown has never let me down.” And I’m especially grateful to be celebrating three of the best years of my life with the best man I know – my husband who didn’t want to be one. I’m glad he stayed open, too. Marrying him was the easiest, best decision I’ve ever made. He’s absolutely killing it at partnership and parenthood! (And I’m not just saying that because I woke up to roses and a scavenger hunt of sweet cards ending in tickets to see John Mayer tomorrow night.) So, here’s to another year of lots of love and lots of laughter. 🥂HAPPY ANNIVERSARY, Stephen Mathew.❤️ You’re my hero.
Likes : 5727
Heather Land - 5.7K Likes - In 2018 I was in my fifth year of single-mom-life with two kids, starting a new career at 42 doing something I knew nothing about. 

This guy was the production manager on my first tour. He was young and single - never wanted to get married or have kids. So of course, we fell in love and got married on 10.10.2020. 

I just want to say to all of you who may be  discouraged and in a weird purgatory-phase of life, YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT GOOD THINGS MAY BE WAITING FOR YOU JUST AROUND THE CORNER. 😊❤️ 

I’m so glad that I have stayed open and said yes to whatever unexpected things God has brought my way. In the words of @drjoedispenza, “The unknown has never let me down.” 

And I’m especially grateful to be celebrating three of the best years of my life with the best man I know - my husband who didn’t want to be one. I’m glad he stayed open, too. 

Marrying him was the easiest, best decision I’ve ever made. He’s absolutely killing it at partnership and parenthood! (And I’m not just saying that because I woke up to roses and a scavenger hunt of sweet cards ending in tickets to see John Mayer tomorrow night.)

So, here’s to another year of lots of love and lots of laughter. 🥂HAPPY ANNIVERSARY, Stephen Mathew.❤️ 
You’re my hero.

5.7K Likes – Heather Land Instagram

Caption : In 2018 I was in my fifth year of single-mom-life with two kids, starting a new career at 42 doing something I knew nothing about. This guy was the production manager on my first tour. He was young and single – never wanted to get married or have kids. So of course, we fell in love and got married on 10.10.2020. I just want to say to all of you who may be discouraged and in a weird purgatory-phase of life, YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT GOOD THINGS MAY BE WAITING FOR YOU JUST AROUND THE CORNER. 😊❤️ I’m so glad that I have stayed open and said yes to whatever unexpected things God has brought my way. In the words of @drjoedispenza, “The unknown has never let me down.” And I’m especially grateful to be celebrating three of the best years of my life with the best man I know – my husband who didn’t want to be one. I’m glad he stayed open, too. Marrying him was the easiest, best decision I’ve ever made. He’s absolutely killing it at partnership and parenthood! (And I’m not just saying that because I woke up to roses and a scavenger hunt of sweet cards ending in tickets to see John Mayer tomorrow night.) So, here’s to another year of lots of love and lots of laughter. 🥂HAPPY ANNIVERSARY, Stephen Mathew.❤️ You’re my hero.
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Heather Land - 5.7K Likes - In 2018 I was in my fifth year of single-mom-life with two kids, starting a new career at 42 doing something I knew nothing about. 

This guy was the production manager on my first tour. He was young and single - never wanted to get married or have kids. So of course, we fell in love and got married on 10.10.2020. 

I just want to say to all of you who may be  discouraged and in a weird purgatory-phase of life, YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT GOOD THINGS MAY BE WAITING FOR YOU JUST AROUND THE CORNER. 😊❤️ 

I’m so glad that I have stayed open and said yes to whatever unexpected things God has brought my way. In the words of @drjoedispenza, “The unknown has never let me down.” 

And I’m especially grateful to be celebrating three of the best years of my life with the best man I know - my husband who didn’t want to be one. I’m glad he stayed open, too. 

Marrying him was the easiest, best decision I’ve ever made. He’s absolutely killing it at partnership and parenthood! (And I’m not just saying that because I woke up to roses and a scavenger hunt of sweet cards ending in tickets to see John Mayer tomorrow night.)

So, here’s to another year of lots of love and lots of laughter. 🥂HAPPY ANNIVERSARY, Stephen Mathew.❤️ 
You’re my hero.

5.7K Likes – Heather Land Instagram

Caption : In 2018 I was in my fifth year of single-mom-life with two kids, starting a new career at 42 doing something I knew nothing about. This guy was the production manager on my first tour. He was young and single – never wanted to get married or have kids. So of course, we fell in love and got married on 10.10.2020. I just want to say to all of you who may be discouraged and in a weird purgatory-phase of life, YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT GOOD THINGS MAY BE WAITING FOR YOU JUST AROUND THE CORNER. 😊❤️ I’m so glad that I have stayed open and said yes to whatever unexpected things God has brought my way. In the words of @drjoedispenza, “The unknown has never let me down.” And I’m especially grateful to be celebrating three of the best years of my life with the best man I know – my husband who didn’t want to be one. I’m glad he stayed open, too. Marrying him was the easiest, best decision I’ve ever made. He’s absolutely killing it at partnership and parenthood! (And I’m not just saying that because I woke up to roses and a scavenger hunt of sweet cards ending in tickets to see John Mayer tomorrow night.) So, here’s to another year of lots of love and lots of laughter. 🥂HAPPY ANNIVERSARY, Stephen Mathew.❤️ You’re my hero.
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Heather Land - 5.7K Likes - In 2018 I was in my fifth year of single-mom-life with two kids, starting a new career at 42 doing something I knew nothing about. 

This guy was the production manager on my first tour. He was young and single - never wanted to get married or have kids. So of course, we fell in love and got married on 10.10.2020. 

I just want to say to all of you who may be  discouraged and in a weird purgatory-phase of life, YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT GOOD THINGS MAY BE WAITING FOR YOU JUST AROUND THE CORNER. 😊❤️ 

I’m so glad that I have stayed open and said yes to whatever unexpected things God has brought my way. In the words of @drjoedispenza, “The unknown has never let me down.” 

And I’m especially grateful to be celebrating three of the best years of my life with the best man I know - my husband who didn’t want to be one. I’m glad he stayed open, too. 

Marrying him was the easiest, best decision I’ve ever made. He’s absolutely killing it at partnership and parenthood! (And I’m not just saying that because I woke up to roses and a scavenger hunt of sweet cards ending in tickets to see John Mayer tomorrow night.)

So, here’s to another year of lots of love and lots of laughter. 🥂HAPPY ANNIVERSARY, Stephen Mathew.❤️ 
You’re my hero.

5.7K Likes – Heather Land Instagram

Caption : In 2018 I was in my fifth year of single-mom-life with two kids, starting a new career at 42 doing something I knew nothing about. This guy was the production manager on my first tour. He was young and single – never wanted to get married or have kids. So of course, we fell in love and got married on 10.10.2020. I just want to say to all of you who may be discouraged and in a weird purgatory-phase of life, YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT GOOD THINGS MAY BE WAITING FOR YOU JUST AROUND THE CORNER. 😊❤️ I’m so glad that I have stayed open and said yes to whatever unexpected things God has brought my way. In the words of @drjoedispenza, “The unknown has never let me down.” And I’m especially grateful to be celebrating three of the best years of my life with the best man I know – my husband who didn’t want to be one. I’m glad he stayed open, too. Marrying him was the easiest, best decision I’ve ever made. He’s absolutely killing it at partnership and parenthood! (And I’m not just saying that because I woke up to roses and a scavenger hunt of sweet cards ending in tickets to see John Mayer tomorrow night.) So, here’s to another year of lots of love and lots of laughter. 🥂HAPPY ANNIVERSARY, Stephen Mathew.❤️ You’re my hero.
Likes : 5727
Heather Land - 5.7K Likes - In 2018 I was in my fifth year of single-mom-life with two kids, starting a new career at 42 doing something I knew nothing about. 

This guy was the production manager on my first tour. He was young and single - never wanted to get married or have kids. So of course, we fell in love and got married on 10.10.2020. 

I just want to say to all of you who may be  discouraged and in a weird purgatory-phase of life, YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT GOOD THINGS MAY BE WAITING FOR YOU JUST AROUND THE CORNER. 😊❤️ 

I’m so glad that I have stayed open and said yes to whatever unexpected things God has brought my way. In the words of @drjoedispenza, “The unknown has never let me down.” 

And I’m especially grateful to be celebrating three of the best years of my life with the best man I know - my husband who didn’t want to be one. I’m glad he stayed open, too. 

Marrying him was the easiest, best decision I’ve ever made. He’s absolutely killing it at partnership and parenthood! (And I’m not just saying that because I woke up to roses and a scavenger hunt of sweet cards ending in tickets to see John Mayer tomorrow night.)

So, here’s to another year of lots of love and lots of laughter. 🥂HAPPY ANNIVERSARY, Stephen Mathew.❤️ 
You’re my hero.

5.7K Likes – Heather Land Instagram

Caption : In 2018 I was in my fifth year of single-mom-life with two kids, starting a new career at 42 doing something I knew nothing about. This guy was the production manager on my first tour. He was young and single – never wanted to get married or have kids. So of course, we fell in love and got married on 10.10.2020. I just want to say to all of you who may be discouraged and in a weird purgatory-phase of life, YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT GOOD THINGS MAY BE WAITING FOR YOU JUST AROUND THE CORNER. 😊❤️ I’m so glad that I have stayed open and said yes to whatever unexpected things God has brought my way. In the words of @drjoedispenza, “The unknown has never let me down.” And I’m especially grateful to be celebrating three of the best years of my life with the best man I know – my husband who didn’t want to be one. I’m glad he stayed open, too. Marrying him was the easiest, best decision I’ve ever made. He’s absolutely killing it at partnership and parenthood! (And I’m not just saying that because I woke up to roses and a scavenger hunt of sweet cards ending in tickets to see John Mayer tomorrow night.) So, here’s to another year of lots of love and lots of laughter. 🥂HAPPY ANNIVERSARY, Stephen Mathew.❤️ You’re my hero.
Likes : 5727
Heather Land - 5.7K Likes - In 2018 I was in my fifth year of single-mom-life with two kids, starting a new career at 42 doing something I knew nothing about. 

This guy was the production manager on my first tour. He was young and single - never wanted to get married or have kids. So of course, we fell in love and got married on 10.10.2020. 

I just want to say to all of you who may be  discouraged and in a weird purgatory-phase of life, YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT GOOD THINGS MAY BE WAITING FOR YOU JUST AROUND THE CORNER. 😊❤️ 

I’m so glad that I have stayed open and said yes to whatever unexpected things God has brought my way. In the words of @drjoedispenza, “The unknown has never let me down.” 

And I’m especially grateful to be celebrating three of the best years of my life with the best man I know - my husband who didn’t want to be one. I’m glad he stayed open, too. 

Marrying him was the easiest, best decision I’ve ever made. He’s absolutely killing it at partnership and parenthood! (And I’m not just saying that because I woke up to roses and a scavenger hunt of sweet cards ending in tickets to see John Mayer tomorrow night.)

So, here’s to another year of lots of love and lots of laughter. 🥂HAPPY ANNIVERSARY, Stephen Mathew.❤️ 
You’re my hero.

5.7K Likes – Heather Land Instagram

Caption : In 2018 I was in my fifth year of single-mom-life with two kids, starting a new career at 42 doing something I knew nothing about. This guy was the production manager on my first tour. He was young and single – never wanted to get married or have kids. So of course, we fell in love and got married on 10.10.2020. I just want to say to all of you who may be discouraged and in a weird purgatory-phase of life, YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT GOOD THINGS MAY BE WAITING FOR YOU JUST AROUND THE CORNER. 😊❤️ I’m so glad that I have stayed open and said yes to whatever unexpected things God has brought my way. In the words of @drjoedispenza, “The unknown has never let me down.” And I’m especially grateful to be celebrating three of the best years of my life with the best man I know – my husband who didn’t want to be one. I’m glad he stayed open, too. Marrying him was the easiest, best decision I’ve ever made. He’s absolutely killing it at partnership and parenthood! (And I’m not just saying that because I woke up to roses and a scavenger hunt of sweet cards ending in tickets to see John Mayer tomorrow night.) So, here’s to another year of lots of love and lots of laughter. 🥂HAPPY ANNIVERSARY, Stephen Mathew.❤️ You’re my hero.
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Heather Land - 5.5K Likes - A note to girls who want a partner but don’t have one yet: 

Long ago in the year 2018, in my 4th year of single-mom life, I had resigned myself to the fact that I had been through a lot and that I, in fact, WAS a lot so I would probably be “alone”forever. And that was actually working out great for me. I rather enjoyed it. I loved myself and my time and my way. I was as stable as a person with my brain and history could be. I was happy. 
And all those things I was looking for as a young girl that I had written on paper in youth group had not really worked out for me anyway. 

But one day, this really handsome, young millennial guy who never wanted to be married or have children came my way so of course, I was interested. 
He was 29. I was 41. YIKES! (Could’ve sworn he was older.) We had different backgrounds and cultures. 
I had trauma. He didn’t. 
He was smart. I was just funny. 
He knew how to pronounce gnocchi. I thought I did but I didn’t. 

On paper this was FOR SURE a no-go, but as previously stated, paper hadn’t really worked out for me so….

Here’s what I’m saying:
I’m really glad I didn’t put pen to paper on this one. I’m really glad I went with my heart and my gut and didn’t talk myself out of the greatest thing that’s ever happened to me. I’m glad I took a risk that is paying off in spades. And I’m especially glad that the best man I’ve ever known decided that a wife and a couple of teenagers was, in fact, for him after all. 

I KNEW IT, GIRLS!! I knew this was out there. I knew that being cherished and adored everyday wasn’t just a pipe dream. I knew I deserved this. 

And so do you. You deserve it, too. Don’t settle. If you are a gal wanting a partner, wait for one who thinks Valentine’s Day is the dumbest thing on living earth but writes you the sweetest cards and gives you flowers anyway (& your daughter, too). But most importantly, hold out for one who doesn’t need a “holiday” to make you feel like you’re the greatest gift he’s ever been given. This one’s a keeper. Until then, be the love of your own life. Nobody can love you better than you love yourself, so I’m learning. (But my guy is a very close second). 🩷

5.5K Likes – Heather Land Instagram

Caption : A note to girls who want a partner but don’t have one yet: Long ago in the year 2018, in my 4th year of single-mom life, I had resigned myself to the fact that I had been through a lot and that I, in fact, WAS a lot so I would probably be “alone”forever. And that was actually working out great for me. I rather enjoyed it. I loved myself and my time and my way. I was as stable as a person with my brain and history could be. I was happy. And all those things I was looking for as a young girl that I had written on paper in youth group had not really worked out for me anyway. But one day, this really handsome, young millennial guy who never wanted to be married or have children came my way so of course, I was interested. He was 29. I was 41. YIKES! (Could’ve sworn he was older.) We had different backgrounds and cultures. I had trauma. He didn’t. He was smart. I was just funny. He knew how to pronounce gnocchi. I thought I did but I didn’t. On paper this was FOR SURE a no-go, but as previously stated, paper hadn’t really worked out for me so…. Here’s what I’m saying: I’m really glad I didn’t put pen to paper on this one. I’m really glad I went with my heart and my gut and didn’t talk myself out of the greatest thing that’s ever happened to me. I’m glad I took a risk that is paying off in spades. And I’m especially glad that the best man I’ve ever known decided that a wife and a couple of teenagers was, in fact, for him after all. I KNEW IT, GIRLS!! I knew this was out there. I knew that being cherished and adored everyday wasn’t just a pipe dream. I knew I deserved this. And so do you. You deserve it, too. Don’t settle. If you are a gal wanting a partner, wait for one who thinks Valentine’s Day is the dumbest thing on living earth but writes you the sweetest cards and gives you flowers anyway (& your daughter, too). But most importantly, hold out for one who doesn’t need a “holiday” to make you feel like you’re the greatest gift he’s ever been given. This one’s a keeper. Until then, be the love of your own life. Nobody can love you better than you love yourself, so I’m learning. (But my guy is a very close second). 🩷
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Heather Land - 5.5K Likes - A note to girls who want a partner but don’t have one yet: 

Long ago in the year 2018, in my 4th year of single-mom life, I had resigned myself to the fact that I had been through a lot and that I, in fact, WAS a lot so I would probably be “alone”forever. And that was actually working out great for me. I rather enjoyed it. I loved myself and my time and my way. I was as stable as a person with my brain and history could be. I was happy. 
And all those things I was looking for as a young girl that I had written on paper in youth group had not really worked out for me anyway. 

But one day, this really handsome, young millennial guy who never wanted to be married or have children came my way so of course, I was interested. 
He was 29. I was 41. YIKES! (Could’ve sworn he was older.) We had different backgrounds and cultures. 
I had trauma. He didn’t. 
He was smart. I was just funny. 
He knew how to pronounce gnocchi. I thought I did but I didn’t. 

On paper this was FOR SURE a no-go, but as previously stated, paper hadn’t really worked out for me so….

Here’s what I’m saying:
I’m really glad I didn’t put pen to paper on this one. I’m really glad I went with my heart and my gut and didn’t talk myself out of the greatest thing that’s ever happened to me. I’m glad I took a risk that is paying off in spades. And I’m especially glad that the best man I’ve ever known decided that a wife and a couple of teenagers was, in fact, for him after all. 

I KNEW IT, GIRLS!! I knew this was out there. I knew that being cherished and adored everyday wasn’t just a pipe dream. I knew I deserved this. 

And so do you. You deserve it, too. Don’t settle. If you are a gal wanting a partner, wait for one who thinks Valentine’s Day is the dumbest thing on living earth but writes you the sweetest cards and gives you flowers anyway (& your daughter, too). But most importantly, hold out for one who doesn’t need a “holiday” to make you feel like you’re the greatest gift he’s ever been given. This one’s a keeper. Until then, be the love of your own life. Nobody can love you better than you love yourself, so I’m learning. (But my guy is a very close second). 🩷

5.5K Likes – Heather Land Instagram

Caption : A note to girls who want a partner but don’t have one yet: Long ago in the year 2018, in my 4th year of single-mom life, I had resigned myself to the fact that I had been through a lot and that I, in fact, WAS a lot so I would probably be “alone”forever. And that was actually working out great for me. I rather enjoyed it. I loved myself and my time and my way. I was as stable as a person with my brain and history could be. I was happy. And all those things I was looking for as a young girl that I had written on paper in youth group had not really worked out for me anyway. But one day, this really handsome, young millennial guy who never wanted to be married or have children came my way so of course, I was interested. He was 29. I was 41. YIKES! (Could’ve sworn he was older.) We had different backgrounds and cultures. I had trauma. He didn’t. He was smart. I was just funny. He knew how to pronounce gnocchi. I thought I did but I didn’t. On paper this was FOR SURE a no-go, but as previously stated, paper hadn’t really worked out for me so…. Here’s what I’m saying: I’m really glad I didn’t put pen to paper on this one. I’m really glad I went with my heart and my gut and didn’t talk myself out of the greatest thing that’s ever happened to me. I’m glad I took a risk that is paying off in spades. And I’m especially glad that the best man I’ve ever known decided that a wife and a couple of teenagers was, in fact, for him after all. I KNEW IT, GIRLS!! I knew this was out there. I knew that being cherished and adored everyday wasn’t just a pipe dream. I knew I deserved this. And so do you. You deserve it, too. Don’t settle. If you are a gal wanting a partner, wait for one who thinks Valentine’s Day is the dumbest thing on living earth but writes you the sweetest cards and gives you flowers anyway (& your daughter, too). But most importantly, hold out for one who doesn’t need a “holiday” to make you feel like you’re the greatest gift he’s ever been given. This one’s a keeper. Until then, be the love of your own life. Nobody can love you better than you love yourself, so I’m learning. (But my guy is a very close second). 🩷
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Heather Land - 5.5K Likes - A note to girls who want a partner but don’t have one yet: 

Long ago in the year 2018, in my 4th year of single-mom life, I had resigned myself to the fact that I had been through a lot and that I, in fact, WAS a lot so I would probably be “alone”forever. And that was actually working out great for me. I rather enjoyed it. I loved myself and my time and my way. I was as stable as a person with my brain and history could be. I was happy. 
And all those things I was looking for as a young girl that I had written on paper in youth group had not really worked out for me anyway. 

But one day, this really handsome, young millennial guy who never wanted to be married or have children came my way so of course, I was interested. 
He was 29. I was 41. YIKES! (Could’ve sworn he was older.) We had different backgrounds and cultures. 
I had trauma. He didn’t. 
He was smart. I was just funny. 
He knew how to pronounce gnocchi. I thought I did but I didn’t. 

On paper this was FOR SURE a no-go, but as previously stated, paper hadn’t really worked out for me so….

Here’s what I’m saying:
I’m really glad I didn’t put pen to paper on this one. I’m really glad I went with my heart and my gut and didn’t talk myself out of the greatest thing that’s ever happened to me. I’m glad I took a risk that is paying off in spades. And I’m especially glad that the best man I’ve ever known decided that a wife and a couple of teenagers was, in fact, for him after all. 

I KNEW IT, GIRLS!! I knew this was out there. I knew that being cherished and adored everyday wasn’t just a pipe dream. I knew I deserved this. 

And so do you. You deserve it, too. Don’t settle. If you are a gal wanting a partner, wait for one who thinks Valentine’s Day is the dumbest thing on living earth but writes you the sweetest cards and gives you flowers anyway (& your daughter, too). But most importantly, hold out for one who doesn’t need a “holiday” to make you feel like you’re the greatest gift he’s ever been given. This one’s a keeper. Until then, be the love of your own life. Nobody can love you better than you love yourself, so I’m learning. (But my guy is a very close second). 🩷

5.5K Likes – Heather Land Instagram

Caption : A note to girls who want a partner but don’t have one yet: Long ago in the year 2018, in my 4th year of single-mom life, I had resigned myself to the fact that I had been through a lot and that I, in fact, WAS a lot so I would probably be “alone”forever. And that was actually working out great for me. I rather enjoyed it. I loved myself and my time and my way. I was as stable as a person with my brain and history could be. I was happy. And all those things I was looking for as a young girl that I had written on paper in youth group had not really worked out for me anyway. But one day, this really handsome, young millennial guy who never wanted to be married or have children came my way so of course, I was interested. He was 29. I was 41. YIKES! (Could’ve sworn he was older.) We had different backgrounds and cultures. I had trauma. He didn’t. He was smart. I was just funny. He knew how to pronounce gnocchi. I thought I did but I didn’t. On paper this was FOR SURE a no-go, but as previously stated, paper hadn’t really worked out for me so…. Here’s what I’m saying: I’m really glad I didn’t put pen to paper on this one. I’m really glad I went with my heart and my gut and didn’t talk myself out of the greatest thing that’s ever happened to me. I’m glad I took a risk that is paying off in spades. And I’m especially glad that the best man I’ve ever known decided that a wife and a couple of teenagers was, in fact, for him after all. I KNEW IT, GIRLS!! I knew this was out there. I knew that being cherished and adored everyday wasn’t just a pipe dream. I knew I deserved this. And so do you. You deserve it, too. Don’t settle. If you are a gal wanting a partner, wait for one who thinks Valentine’s Day is the dumbest thing on living earth but writes you the sweetest cards and gives you flowers anyway (& your daughter, too). But most importantly, hold out for one who doesn’t need a “holiday” to make you feel like you’re the greatest gift he’s ever been given. This one’s a keeper. Until then, be the love of your own life. Nobody can love you better than you love yourself, so I’m learning. (But my guy is a very close second). 🩷
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Heather Land - 5.5K Likes - A note to girls who want a partner but don’t have one yet: 

Long ago in the year 2018, in my 4th year of single-mom life, I had resigned myself to the fact that I had been through a lot and that I, in fact, WAS a lot so I would probably be “alone”forever. And that was actually working out great for me. I rather enjoyed it. I loved myself and my time and my way. I was as stable as a person with my brain and history could be. I was happy. 
And all those things I was looking for as a young girl that I had written on paper in youth group had not really worked out for me anyway. 

But one day, this really handsome, young millennial guy who never wanted to be married or have children came my way so of course, I was interested. 
He was 29. I was 41. YIKES! (Could’ve sworn he was older.) We had different backgrounds and cultures. 
I had trauma. He didn’t. 
He was smart. I was just funny. 
He knew how to pronounce gnocchi. I thought I did but I didn’t. 

On paper this was FOR SURE a no-go, but as previously stated, paper hadn’t really worked out for me so….

Here’s what I’m saying:
I’m really glad I didn’t put pen to paper on this one. I’m really glad I went with my heart and my gut and didn’t talk myself out of the greatest thing that’s ever happened to me. I’m glad I took a risk that is paying off in spades. And I’m especially glad that the best man I’ve ever known decided that a wife and a couple of teenagers was, in fact, for him after all. 

I KNEW IT, GIRLS!! I knew this was out there. I knew that being cherished and adored everyday wasn’t just a pipe dream. I knew I deserved this. 

And so do you. You deserve it, too. Don’t settle. If you are a gal wanting a partner, wait for one who thinks Valentine’s Day is the dumbest thing on living earth but writes you the sweetest cards and gives you flowers anyway (& your daughter, too). But most importantly, hold out for one who doesn’t need a “holiday” to make you feel like you’re the greatest gift he’s ever been given. This one’s a keeper. Until then, be the love of your own life. Nobody can love you better than you love yourself, so I’m learning. (But my guy is a very close second). 🩷

5.5K Likes – Heather Land Instagram

Caption : A note to girls who want a partner but don’t have one yet: Long ago in the year 2018, in my 4th year of single-mom life, I had resigned myself to the fact that I had been through a lot and that I, in fact, WAS a lot so I would probably be “alone”forever. And that was actually working out great for me. I rather enjoyed it. I loved myself and my time and my way. I was as stable as a person with my brain and history could be. I was happy. And all those things I was looking for as a young girl that I had written on paper in youth group had not really worked out for me anyway. But one day, this really handsome, young millennial guy who never wanted to be married or have children came my way so of course, I was interested. He was 29. I was 41. YIKES! (Could’ve sworn he was older.) We had different backgrounds and cultures. I had trauma. He didn’t. He was smart. I was just funny. He knew how to pronounce gnocchi. I thought I did but I didn’t. On paper this was FOR SURE a no-go, but as previously stated, paper hadn’t really worked out for me so…. Here’s what I’m saying: I’m really glad I didn’t put pen to paper on this one. I’m really glad I went with my heart and my gut and didn’t talk myself out of the greatest thing that’s ever happened to me. I’m glad I took a risk that is paying off in spades. And I’m especially glad that the best man I’ve ever known decided that a wife and a couple of teenagers was, in fact, for him after all. I KNEW IT, GIRLS!! I knew this was out there. I knew that being cherished and adored everyday wasn’t just a pipe dream. I knew I deserved this. And so do you. You deserve it, too. Don’t settle. If you are a gal wanting a partner, wait for one who thinks Valentine’s Day is the dumbest thing on living earth but writes you the sweetest cards and gives you flowers anyway (& your daughter, too). But most importantly, hold out for one who doesn’t need a “holiday” to make you feel like you’re the greatest gift he’s ever been given. This one’s a keeper. Until then, be the love of your own life. Nobody can love you better than you love yourself, so I’m learning. (But my guy is a very close second). 🩷
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Heather Land - 5.3K Likes - Cred:@bethferacofitness

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Heather Land - 4.9K Likes - 📷@just_4jokes

4.9K Likes – Heather Land Instagram

Caption : 📷@just_4jokes
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Heather Land - 4.7K Likes - Factual

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Caption : Factual
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Heather Land - 4.7K Likes - Long, long ago in a land far, far away…

4.7K Likes – Heather Land Instagram

Caption : Long, long ago in a land far, far away…
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Heather Land - 4.5K Likes - Every. Single. Time.

4.5K Likes – Heather Land Instagram

Caption : Every. Single. Time.
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