For each other and for ourselves 🖤
I have one for Zane I’ll share when it’s healed ✨
Thank you so @cachotattoo, you’re awesome 🙏🏻
For each other and for ourselves 🖤
I have one for Zane I’ll share when it’s healed ✨
Thank you so @cachotattoo, you’re awesome 🙏🏻
I’ve realized I’ve not shared a whole lot of life lately so here’s a dump of the last month 💖
1. The best kisses in the world
2. The least awkward photo we’ve taken 😂
3. I said I wanted popcorn 😌
4. Thanks for coming @itsjojosiwa 💖
5. Cabo sunsets (where stressed about being stolen until we realized we’ve aged out of that 😂)
6. The recharge I needed
7. Morning hairs
8. My doll from when I was his age 🥹
9. Designing
10. My whole heart
I’ve realized I’ve not shared a whole lot of life lately so here’s a dump of the last month 💖
1. The best kisses in the world
2. The least awkward photo we’ve taken 😂
3. I said I wanted popcorn 😌
4. Thanks for coming @itsjojosiwa 💖
5. Cabo sunsets (where stressed about being stolen until we realized we’ve aged out of that 😂)
6. The recharge I needed
7. Morning hairs
8. My doll from when I was his age 🥹
9. Designing
10. My whole heart
I’ve realized I’ve not shared a whole lot of life lately so here’s a dump of the last month 💖
1. The best kisses in the world
2. The least awkward photo we’ve taken 😂
3. I said I wanted popcorn 😌
4. Thanks for coming @itsjojosiwa 💖
5. Cabo sunsets (where stressed about being stolen until we realized we’ve aged out of that 😂)
6. The recharge I needed
7. Morning hairs
8. My doll from when I was his age 🥹
9. Designing
10. My whole heart
I’ve realized I’ve not shared a whole lot of life lately so here’s a dump of the last month 💖
1. The best kisses in the world
2. The least awkward photo we’ve taken 😂
3. I said I wanted popcorn 😌
4. Thanks for coming @itsjojosiwa 💖
5. Cabo sunsets (where stressed about being stolen until we realized we’ve aged out of that 😂)
6. The recharge I needed
7. Morning hairs
8. My doll from when I was his age 🥹
9. Designing
10. My whole heart
I’ve realized I’ve not shared a whole lot of life lately so here’s a dump of the last month 💖
1. The best kisses in the world
2. The least awkward photo we’ve taken 😂
3. I said I wanted popcorn 😌
4. Thanks for coming @itsjojosiwa 💖
5. Cabo sunsets (where stressed about being stolen until we realized we’ve aged out of that 😂)
6. The recharge I needed
7. Morning hairs
8. My doll from when I was his age 🥹
9. Designing
10. My whole heart
I’ve realized I’ve not shared a whole lot of life lately so here’s a dump of the last month 💖
1. The best kisses in the world
2. The least awkward photo we’ve taken 😂
3. I said I wanted popcorn 😌
4. Thanks for coming @itsjojosiwa 💖
5. Cabo sunsets (where stressed about being stolen until we realized we’ve aged out of that 😂)
6. The recharge I needed
7. Morning hairs
8. My doll from when I was his age 🥹
9. Designing
10. My whole heart
I’ve realized I’ve not shared a whole lot of life lately so here’s a dump of the last month 💖
1. The best kisses in the world
2. The least awkward photo we’ve taken 😂
3. I said I wanted popcorn 😌
4. Thanks for coming @itsjojosiwa 💖
5. Cabo sunsets (where stressed about being stolen until we realized we’ve aged out of that 😂)
6. The recharge I needed
7. Morning hairs
8. My doll from when I was his age 🥹
9. Designing
10. My whole heart
I’ve realized I’ve not shared a whole lot of life lately so here’s a dump of the last month 💖
1. The best kisses in the world
2. The least awkward photo we’ve taken 😂
3. I said I wanted popcorn 😌
4. Thanks for coming @itsjojosiwa 💖
5. Cabo sunsets (where stressed about being stolen until we realized we’ve aged out of that 😂)
6. The recharge I needed
7. Morning hairs
8. My doll from when I was his age 🥹
9. Designing
10. My whole heart
I’ve realized I’ve not shared a whole lot of life lately so here’s a dump of the last month 💖
1. The best kisses in the world
2. The least awkward photo we’ve taken 😂
3. I said I wanted popcorn 😌
4. Thanks for coming @itsjojosiwa 💖
5. Cabo sunsets (where stressed about being stolen until we realized we’ve aged out of that 😂)
6. The recharge I needed
7. Morning hairs
8. My doll from when I was his age 🥹
9. Designing
10. My whole heart
I’ve realized I’ve not shared a whole lot of life lately so here’s a dump of the last month 💖
1. The best kisses in the world
2. The least awkward photo we’ve taken 😂
3. I said I wanted popcorn 😌
4. Thanks for coming @itsjojosiwa 💖
5. Cabo sunsets (where stressed about being stolen until we realized we’ve aged out of that 😂)
6. The recharge I needed
7. Morning hairs
8. My doll from when I was his age 🥹
9. Designing
10. My whole heart
I. Can’t. Handle it. He’s a little boy. I blinked and it happened 🥹 so big, so loving gentle curious kind … and opinionated lol. It’s ok because every stage and phase continues to get better and better. My mum keeps reminding me that these first 5-6 years were the favorite of her life and I get it. All the discoveries and learning and growing and stumbling and snuggling are the best feeling ever. One day, as many of you mama’s have shared with me… I’ll give anything to relive just a minute of these moments. 🤍
Celebrating our family yesterday ✨ Dakota Rhye is 1!!! We love you guys so freaking much ♥️
Cutest outfit is @minioliestore link in my stories 🫶🏼
I. Can’t. Handle it. He’s a little boy. I blinked and it happened 🥹 so big, so loving gentle curious kind … and opinionated lol. It’s ok because every stage and phase continues to get better and better. My mum keeps reminding me that these first 5-6 years were the favorite of her life and I get it. All the discoveries and learning and growing and stumbling and snuggling are the best feeling ever. One day, as many of you mama’s have shared with me… I’ll give anything to relive just a minute of these moments. 🤍
Celebrating our family yesterday ✨ Dakota Rhye is 1!!! We love you guys so freaking much ♥️
Cutest outfit is @minioliestore link in my stories 🫶🏼
Morning hairs 🤍
Every morning I video coming into his room and it’s the most beautiful moment. Sometimes I share it on my stories when it’s just too cute not to. But I don’t do it with the intention of sharing. I video every morning because these moments I know won’t last forever and I want to immortalize as many of them as I can. The first time he sees me or sees the kids coming in to say good morning his little face lights up. His hair is ALWAYS wild and his little button nose is always a touch pink. Sometimes when daddy doesn’t take out his top knot he wakes up like Lucy Lou Who from the Grinch. 😂 his sweet little voice saying Hi as he waves. I can never ever get enough. Wake ups and bedtimes are without doubt my favorite times of day. Bedtime I sing or hum for him, I speak positive affirmations to him, remind him how loved and safe he is and I thank him for choosing me. For making me a mama.
Motherhood. My greatest, most favorite and coolest thing I’ve done yet. And I’ve done some pretty cool things 🙂
When Zane was only a few months old and having a rough night I suddenly started humming this song to him. Edelweiss. It calmed him within seconds and from then on this was and still is what I hum for him at night. I’ve never even thought about this song and I had no idea where it came from until I realized it was a favorite of my Dads. I knew in that moment he brought it to me all those months ago when Zane was upset. Now it feels very special and makes me smile.
It’s no secret now, we didn’t have a great relationship when he was here. But.. in his passing and in me finding gratitude and forgiveness I’ve now got a better relationship with him than I think I ever had. Or at least since I was very little and adored him. Now I thank him often for so many things, and I thank him for looking out for his Grandson. I know he’s there, or here. I know he’s taking care of me now in a way he couldn’t while he was with us.
During this week where I’ve cried and raged and felt ruined every time I see my feed or the news, I am grateful for this mornings nature walk with my son, for our safety, and for hearing this beautiful version of a song that now fills me with love and joy.
Thinking of ALL of you. Wishing and praying with ALL of you. To anyone who has lost someone this week or even recently, I believe they are with you always, they are there, or here. They are everywhere you are just in a different capacity. They no longer hurt. They are there loving you and guiding you and protecting you.
Love to everyone. Hope for humanity. Be a light in someone’s world today. We need it if you can offer it🙏🏻
Yesterday’s episode is much more of an open share than I had intended. That’s also why it’s taken u til today to post for it. This part of my life is so long ago that going back to it felt both strange, cathartic and in the aftermath… scary. It’s honestly like a past life that I have a glimpse of. I opened up to Bri last night and said how anxious I was feeling having shared a part of me that was before now, completely unknown. When we speak on our podcast it is such a safe open space to share and I often forget that thousands of people will hear it and that media will pick it up. I saw a few headlines and immediately felt so vulnerable and scared of how it would be received, how people would judge me. Bri beautifully reminded me that this is only one part of my story and that sharing it could be a source of hope or inspiration for people. So as much as I felt residual feelings of shame, im also reminded of how far I’ve come and how strong I truly am. I am hopeful that what I shared reaches whoever it’s meant to.
Randy’s story is also incredible and beautifully shared.
Today we are recording our reaction episode and answering your questions. Thank you for listening, thank you for supporting and thank you so much for your dms and of love and encouragement this week.
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Thank you for having us @resortsworldlv ♥️ When in Vegas… there’s no place we’d rather be 🙏🏻
Yesterdays episode we talked about Britney’s newly released memoir and also Jada’s book release Worthy. It’s not a usual thing for us to talk about things or people like this but we found their stories compelling and interesting. I had to research and read a lot about both woman as I’m not usually one to keep up with headlines. I was shocked at what I learned about Britney’s life and I absolutely will be reading her book to honor that she now has a voice. We dive into our thoughts and questions on what it was like, how did it get like that, was it good or bad and how it must have affected her.
Unimaginable. Take a listen and let me know your thoughts and feelings on it all at our @oldishpod page. Or call in tomorrow to chat about it 🙂 LINK IN BIO
Instead of asking yourself What If, ask What Now. ~ Randy Spelling 🙏🏻👏🏼
What a powerful and beautiful episode we had this week in response to our Grief chat with Kelly Rizzo. And wow what a week to be talking about Grief and it’s complexities.
Thank you again everyone for listening and sending in your thoughts and questions. And a special thank you to our callers 💖
Sending all of you so much love ♥️
Are you addicted to you phone? Is there anything you touch in a day more than you touch your phone? I think the only thing I touch more than my phone is my engagement ring 🥰 The stats are crazy.
Check out our latest @oldishpod anywhere you listen to podcasts 💖💖
Todays topic on @oldish if Grief. It’s complicated, multifaceted, nuanced and presents differently for everyone. When we knew we were going to address this subject Brian immediately knew he wanted to ask @eattravelrock to be our first ever guest. Thank you Kelly for so vulnerably and bravely sharing your story of loss and grief since losing your husband Bob Saget. You are an incredible woman and I am so grateful I now know you.
We have all experienced grief in many different ways. It’s not always losing a loved one, it can be moving cities, it’s can be losing a job, a beloved pet or letting go of a dream. We would love to hear from you. DM is at @oldishpod or you can even call our hotline 855OLDISH3 to leave a message we can get back to. Leave us questions or plan to come chat live with us.
We can only imagine the grief and rage and pain so many of you are feeling right now. We feel it too and we are sending all of you so much love.
This weeks episode was a really interesting conversation about how social media and media over the years has influenced beauty standards and I ultimately (for many of us) our self worth. We talk about the use of filters, we talk about beauty trends that have teenagers getting fillers or surgeries, I talk about what I’ve done and the effects I’ve felt over the years of this pressure to fit the unattainable beauty standards. I have to admit it’s a hard conversation because I would never ever want to shame someone for doing something that made them feel more confidence yet at the same time I do believe that isn’t where real confidence comes from. And look,
I’m in the conversation and by IN it I mean I do all sorts of things. Lasers, threads, Botox filler over the years and then dissolved only to do a little more again. So I am not approaching this in a way of being above it or outside looking in… I’m in it. I feel it too. This pressure to stay young, “bounce back” .. as a woman .. it’s a hell of a lot.
I would LOVE to talk to some of you about your experience with this. Take a listen (LINK IN BIO) and reach out to me on @oldishpod ♥️
This weeks q&a episode of @oldishpod is LIVE. This week we addressed social media and it’s influences on our well being and self worth. We talked about the impact of it on todays beauty standards and trends and how that is affecting ALL of us but especially our youth. The caller in this clip had a fantastic and vulnerable question about how she is feeling after her rhinoplasty. This is a shortened clip for the purpose of this reel and the full conversation is on our podcast.
We also address a caller with a 16yr old daughter wanting lip injections, what age is appropriate for instagram and how influencers on instagram with branding deals are viewed and seen. And so much more.
Take a listen anywhere you listen to podcasts. You can find the link in my bio and as always… thank you for listening, supporting, interacting and being on this journey with us. We love and appreciate you all. Xx
