This will always be one of my favorite photos of Thea and me. It was from the first season of QAF and we brought it. We shot one of the first love scenes on the show and as one of the producers said to me, “ You and Thea set the bar for intimacy”. We threw down. We gave it all. 🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈 #queerasfolk
No, just no. 💔He was simply the best, the funniest, the ultimate entertainer. He was fun to do award shows with and always a delight to bump into on the streets of WeHo. The world is dimmer now. Rip Leslie Jordan, ya sweet man ❤️
Happy birthday Peter Paige!!! I love ya baby!!!!🌈💕🌈💕🌈💕🌈💕🌈 #QAF #queerasfolk #queerasfolkus
Happy International Lesbian Day!! When we did Queer as Folk we were just diving into these wonderfully flawed characters, focusing on great storytelling and forming a family which I think, coming from theatre, is one of the most important ingredients to a great show or film; Saying to another artist, you can be raw in front of me, naked in front of me, and get to work with respect to your craft and I am going to have your back. I had no idea at the time I was actually playing the first full time, hard 6 on the kinsey scale, never in the closet, series regular lesbian character on television. Not until Girlfriends Magazine told me that in an interview I did with them. Melanie was freedom. Melanie was gutsy. I hold her close to me because she is the closest, most personal character I ever played in my life. She was honest, loyal, loved with her entire heart and gave zero fucks what others thought about her. At a time when the industry was freaking out about this script going around town called Queer as Folk, I too gave zero fucks what people thought about me going after the part. I knew I was built for the role, I knew it was mine and I think I even went into the final network audition and told the execs that; I’m your girl. Here is to all lesbians everywhere ,around the world, living on their own terms with their entire heart. ❤️ #internationallesbianday
I want to thank everyone on this page for watching out for me. I received a message from someone on here that said they were getting private messages from an account with my name on it and with a photo of me. Just to be clear, THIS IS MY ONLY INSTAGRAM ACCOUNT. I will apply for a blue check later today. I get wrapped up in motherhood sometimes but apparently I very much need a blue Check. Thank you again Dana Hawley for having my back and thank you everyone for always having my back. 💪💪💪💪💪
Thank you for my birthday wishes!! I had the most loveliest of days yesterday. I am feeling overwhelmed and grateful for all the love in my life. Now let’s go save democracy.. 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸 VoteVoteVoteVoteVoteVote
Happy Birthday My friend!! I am eternally grateful for your friendship. I am grateful to have witnessed your bold and brave journey as an artist, a man and a trailblazer! The world is a better place because you were born. I love you Robert! We will always have Paris xoxo🌈🙏🏻🌈🙏🏻🌈🙏🏻🌈🙏🏻🌈🙏🏻🌈🙏🏻
Happy National Sons Day!!! I was sent an angel, a warrior and a gentleman with an artist’s spirit. I love his humble confidence. I love his sense of humor, his knowledge of nature at such a young age, his sensitivity and the way he can size up an adult in about three seconds. At three years old he was sitting at a table with a bunch of adults discussing the expansion of space and we were trying to figure out where space ends and he chimes in, “ Space ends in the future because it is constantly expanding”. We all sat and stared at him as he went back to his milkshake. My sweet Dashiell, I love you to the moon and back and around again and to infinity and beyond. I just know you will take all that power and grace you have been given and make the world a better place ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
So I have to go to a costume party tomorrow night and I forgot to get a costume. Does this work? Will people get it or am I going to have to run around doing a Crane Kick all night and saying, “Wax on, wax off” 😂😂😂 #genx #Karatekid #ralphmachhio
Happy Belated Birthday to the one and only Hillary Clinton. Please join her and give to #Crushthecoup. We have a right wing Supreme Court that is poised to give State Legislature the power to overturn Presidential elections. So the 2024 Presidential election could be decided not by the popular vote but by State legislatures, many of which are under Republican control. At that point we are no loger a functioning Democracy. #crushthecoup
Five years ago today my Father passed away. I was so broken hearted, I felt like I was having a heart attack. I called my GP and after every test and EKG imaginable he said I had the heart of a 28 year and what was going on? I told him my father passed away and he said you truly have a broken heart- it’s a real thing. I still cry once in awhile at the most bizarre moments. I still talk to my father as if he is simply ‘waiting for me in the other room’. I keep him close and I know he is hovering around me and Dashiell as the fierce protector he always was. Grief is funny. True grief leaves a hole in your heart but over time you no longer fall into the hole, you simply learn to live with it. I guess this is the price we pay for loving. How lucky are we to love. This was my father’s last time at the beach, the day he taught Dashiell to fly a kite. Rip Daddy. We love you 💕
Dashiell took his first steps on this beach, first touched sand here, first boogie board, first bodysurf, first swim in the ocean, first sandcastle, first snorkel. This sand and us, we have a history ❤️ Oahu, Summer ‘22
When Dashiell met Chasten Buttigieg 🙂 Someone sent me this picture and I just love it. Chasten was so great with Dashiell. I had picked Dashiell up from preschool to go to this event at the Abbey for his husband Pete. I was on the host committee and it was Pete’s first event in LA. I am so happy for them both now that they are parents. I can not Imagine anyone more suited for parenthood. Anyway, I will treasure this photo forever 💕🙏🏻💕
World Premiere at BroadStage of a new work by the Mark Morris Dance Group! The dancers were incredible! Choreography, beautiful! The colors were like sherbet exploded all over the stage with costumes by the wonderful Isaac Mizrahi. Music, Burt Bacharach- the lyrics of Hal David.. all of it was simply a love letter to Happiness and certainly what the world needs now. What made me cry however was the voice of an angel, the one and only Broadway star Marcy Harriel. Please support this production and the arts here in Los Angeles. Right now the world, adults and especially children need the arts more than ever. I do not see art as expendable, rather I see art as everything and a sign as to the health of a culture. Bravo to my friend Gregory Rae for sitting on the Board of BroadStage. What a great group of people who really care about the art scene here in LA❤️❤️❤️ #broadstage
Nika Shakarami, 17 years old. She went protesting and then went missing. Her face so full of hope, her entire life before her. I don’t know her and yet I know her, a young girl who wants to live free. I stand in awe of these young girls in Iran, risking their lives. I have attended more protests than I can count but I can tell you I never once felt my life was at risk. They know their life is at risk and they go anyway. They are the beginning of change and a symbol of hope. Nika died in the streets, after telling a friend she was being chased by police. The back of her skull was crushed as if beaten by a police baton. The security force/police in Iran have threatened her mother and have tried covering up the cause of Nika’s death. #nikashakarami #jinamahsaamini
Lots of firsts this weekend for Dashiell.. first time in DC.. first time seeing fireworks up close.. and first time at the White House. Never give up hope 🇺🇸🙏🏻🇺🇸Vote Vote Vote 🇺🇸🙏🏻🇺🇸 White House BBQ, July 4th, 2022
Happy birthday to my pretty Mama!! Ninety has never looked better! I am so grateful Dashiell and I get to be with you on this day. The best is yet to come! Let’s keep making memories!! Columbia Gorge 10/12/22
I know there are many reasons to lose hope right now. I think we have all struggled in the last several years as we have witnessed changes in our country and our Government. The problem is when you lose hope you stop taking action to make things better because why.. it’s not worth it. So hope is powerful. My friend Todd here reminded me of how powerful it is during our trip to DC. He reminded me of all we have fought for over the last 18 years. I was reminded of Howard Zinn’s words about the arc of justice. I saw Dashiell read the passage above Lincoln with tears in my eyes. Tears that we made it through the pandemic, tears that I taught him how to read during that time and tears for how much hope Todd gave me that day. Our friendship has been one of passing hope back and forth between each other. I remember years ago Todd called me after he was stuck in a room down in Florida fighting with Republican lawyers over Chads. He was one of the Democratic lawyers. After that, I pulled him into the LGBT March on Washington, pulling him back into politics. Anyway, I will always remember this day. Never lose hope. Hope is dangerous to people who would like to control us. Hope makes you believe you can win. Hope tells you to vote and helps you encourage others to vote as well. We need to turn out the vote for the mid term elections. And not only do I hope we will, I know we will. #vote @whizzbangboom
L’Shanah Tovah!! May we all work to ensure everyone has a sweet year ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Happy Father’s Day Daddy!! 💕💕💕💕 thank you for keeping us laughing all those years. Thank you for playing with Dashiell as much as you did. We have all those wonderful memories locked in our hearts. I love you sweet man. We miss you dearly 💕💕💕
Dashiell passed his Orange belt test!!! He has been going six days a week along with one private class every week working hard and he just loves it. He has the most wonderful teacher and has found such a great friend in class in Enzo. They are so supportive of each other. It’s very sweet. Way to level up Dashiell in belts, friendship and life!! Keep going and keep pushing through those tough moments! Clear eyes full hearts can’t lose 💕🙏🏻💕 #taekwondo #taekwondotraining #taekwondoboy
Manoa Falls. Summer ‘22 💕🙏💕
A MOOP walk with Dashiell! MOOP= Matter Out Of Place. Next time you go for a hike or a nature walk bring a grabber and a bag and pick up any litter you find. Dashiell loves MOOP walks. 💕🌎💕🌎💕🌎💕🌎 keep our planet clean 🌎💕🌎💕🌎💕🌎💕🌎
Thank you Skamania Lodge for your kindness and Beauty! We love you! Dashiell played 4 rounds of miniature golf on the most beautiful course ever. A deer walked by, business as usual. He made another ‘friend for life’ and we had quality time with my Mom. You will always be a happy place for us 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻#SkamaniaLodge #PNW